What’s the longest you’ve been mad with your wife/husband and how did you overcome the issue?

[sheikalana]

[PeteBy]

Not married but we've split a couple of times. Drawn back together within a few months. Every couple has ups and downs. As they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Lived together a good 10 years and 8.5 months and I think the longest we stay mad is maybe two or three days. But communication, a smile, we know each other so well that we'll chuckle to ourselves besides being angry still because you know what the other will say and yes it is funny. Little ice breakers, before you know it we're snuggling again and laughing. Relationships are not always good but working through 11 years, we decided we've been through too much and accomplished so much to throw it away over stupid things.

[sheikalana]

Beautiful comment. Thank you.

[PeteBy]

You're very welcome. A relationship that lasts that long can't be tossed away. Been through too much together. We almost split again this June but what sets true love apart is you know they'll always be there for you and through the struggles and hardship, we made it this far. If you love someone. Tell them and NEVER leave home for work without telling them you love them, even if you're angry. The anger will pass, the love stays. One day you may not come back and that will destroy them.

[Gent207-2]

We haven't overcome the matter and yet for allthr trouble and pain it's caused I consider myself lucky that it's our only problem

[Vesuvius87]

With my current boyfriend of 8 month, none. We haven't had a single argument. No relationship should ever get to the point of yelling matches or name callings. That's very disrespectful and it means either there is a lack of communication or the person has mental issues.

With my ex boyfriend, many times and my anger (along with insecurities, feeling strung along) lasted for years. Then he would he happy temporarily, then argue over and argue, all arguments started by him. He's currently blocked on all my social pages. He was a horrible person in the end. He was narcissists, yuck.

[sheikalana]

I agree and you made a good decision in blocking your ex.

[dustybiker]

We talk, immediately. It’s amazing what you can accomplish through respectful communication.

[sheikalana]

I believe in that too.

[MJstheman23]

Let's see been together for 14years and I'd say maybe 6 months of it I wasn't mad at her for something. I'm currently still mad but have kids so I'm stuck. Don't be like me, who is currently looking at dating again sometime in my late 40s after my kids are out of the house. Not fun

[Ga-girl]

I'm still [inactively]mad bc the issue isn't resolved 1 year

[sheikalana]

Omg that’s a longgg time. Do you speak to him?

[Ga-girl]

Yes daily

[weysally]

we have had our quarrels, but we never go to sleep on them, we work it out, make up and its over,

[pizzalovershouse]

Not ether but with exs well I was seeing them very worst was when I gave them a gift they lived but then they be finding something wrong with it so they let them take it back for something cheaper to have done extra money

[eagle1951]

A few days, and finally started talking to her

[Anonymous]

3 years. Divorced her.

[sheikalana]

What? You were mad with your ex wife for three years?

[Opinion Owner]

Of course. She cheated on me for a year behind my back then made untrue accusations of domestic abuse and rape to get full custody of our child so she'd get maximum child support while slipping the guy she was cheating with as a would be father.

[driven159]

I get a divorce and be done with it