Why is it so hard to find women today who want a genuine relationship? A genuine partnership?

[Anonymous]

Most today would rather just have a friends with benefits.

[Adele_26]

Not all women want a friends with benefits. Not accusing, just stating a fact. Everyone has their own trauma and choose different ways to combat it. To make it black and white: healing it or falling victim.

My advice is to look at yourself. Are you choosing women that are emotionally unavailable? Are you choosing them bc you’re emotionally available yourself? I’m only asking bc I did the same thing. As much as I hate to admit, I didn’t realize I was that way until I got into a healthy, loving relationship. It took me forever to heal that shit, but it was so worth it.

If I’m wrong and just projecting, my advice is to not give up. Not everyone thinks alike.

[Guy13]

They are simply following the Communistic Feminist ideals which are designed to destroy the Family. The guys bought first from late 1950s-to present. The girls have had 70 years of man whoring to emulate from side-dish, absent baby. Daddy, and leave wife for Whore etc. Communism is thorough and as Stalin said, “we will never have to fire a bullet.” Stalin was a preachers kid, educator, and atheist who understood how people operate in their sinful nature and humanism-secularism.

[FilmGuy93]

They have lots of life experiences with men being awful to them, so they are just scared and trying to protect themselves; same as we are.

[Asker]

So by protecting themselves the diced to create a "faux relationship" i. e. a friends with benefits so as to give them a temp feeling of a relationship without the potential relationship pitfalls? You see how that's really just make-believe

[FilmGuy93]

Feelings aren’t rational things, my friend.

[Asker]

True that.

[FilmGuy93]

All we can do is love them to the best of our ability. They’re what we have to work with, you know?

[In_Trance]

Because you keep looking in the same places at the same women expecting different results

[Twalli]

Not really hard. Clearly you're not looking in the right places

[TrillXHippy]

Not really sure about that