Where are all the women that want relationships?

[red324]

All I find are girls that aren't actually ready to date because they've been fucked over by some other guy. Or they just don't know a good guy even she was right in front of her.

[bobalife]

Sorry I am guilty of this following both where I wasn't ready to date for some months now and have been fucked over by wrong guys. The more experience we are, the more wounds we do have. But I do want a genuine relationship if the right person shows up. I think in our 30s, you will be able to find at least some women in her late 20s and early 30s who are more ready. You just gotta be patient. I can say the same about a lot of men as well lol. I guess we just haven't met our person yet or the right type of people that have the same intentions as us.

[red324]

Do you ever go back to a guy who wanted you when you were in a bad place later on when you were healed?

[bobalife]

I guess semi in the position right now lol. I think it really depends on the kind of guy he is, what you guys had, how things has been left off, and the situation since everyone’s different right? I decided I won’t go back because he’s just not consistent nor stable.. plus I didn’t feel that secure with him. I want someone who’s genuine, kind, and show me he can be dedicated.

[natured]

i'm taken, i also was dissapointed by my last relationship, but i never gave up.
Weak people give up
So here I am, i believe in relationships, I am in one, and I'm happy.

[red324]

So you made it with the guy that disappointed you or you moved onto someone else?

[natured]

No, i moved onto someone else, the guy who disappointed me disappointed me really badly... With my current guy we do have ups and downs I mean who doesn't?
There should always be a valid reason to quit a relationship.

[princeofromance]

I am asking myself the same question. All these women want is one night stands or money for nothing. We will just have to keep looking. Good Women are still out there somewhere.

[red324]

Then if you just give up and want a one night stand they want a relationship..., but now you're fucked because they think you want a one night stand when really you just settled for it.

[princeofromance]

You should never settle for a one night stand. You need to continue seeking the healthy relationship that you are truly looking for.

[red324]

Well I get frustrated and just want to fuck sometimes because anything else is just too complicated. Women overthink things too much and are worried about step 8 when they're still on step 1.

[princeofromance]

You have a point there. Woman are complicated creatures.

[Anonymous]

Let hurt people heal...

There are many people who are ready for relationship.

Maybe it's just what you attract into your life with bad energy, thinking of bad memories and projecting, and by such emotions?

[red324]

This girl was like I want to just take a month to myself and she was shocked that I didn't go all physco on her ass. She was like thanks for being nice about it that's so rare. I was like take all the time you need, you're more than welcome to text me later on. I used to get angry, but my friend said I don't do myself any favors and he's right. They'll never come around later on if you act all butthurt.

[red324]

It's like a broken record though, They either ghost me completely or they say they aren't ready to date.

[Opinion Owner]

Well your reaction was fine and nice... Just it's really up to them, not your fault.

Maybe think about generally more positive things, not girls /women... Maybe energies match on that field as well.

[red324]

Well maybe they'll come back around if they remember I was the one that was nice and understanding of them when they were in a bad place. That's girl number 3 now in about 4 months.

[Opinion Owner]

I wish you a perfect partner for you, for whom you are also perfect. 🤗

[Anonymous]

I mean I am a highschool sophomore but I know lots of girls (not 18 ) who would love a relationship, me included!

[red324]

Wish I would have dated in high school. Then again I was the ugly kid with the pimples who couldn't stand to look in the mirror. Once I hit about 23 that went away and I think I look pretty good now.

[Opinion Owner]

Neat 😄

[Sarinaaaa]

They want a relationship but maybe not with you? Or you not trying to be with her enough!!

[Miss_Wats0n]

I think it is the hibernation period of the girls.