What cause a man to cheat when?

[Anonymous]

What causes a man to cheat when, his wife is faithful, tries out any and all of his sexual desires when ever he’s in the mood Initiates blow jobs herself , takes care of him their home and their children? She cooks him whatever meal he wants and cleans up after him?

[macjets007]

I'd never cheat. but I'd leave a girl if she wasn't the one I'm looking to date long term. A lot of guys will hang on for the sex and emotional things that are great about relationships but won't break up with the girl. It's nuts I don't know how they can sleep at night, including women who do this!

[prettytulips]

Just curious, what would make you not see her long term if you like the sex and emotional connection with her? What would rule her out as a long term girlfriend?

[prettytulips]

Cheating is never about who the person is that’s being cheated on. It’s always about the person cheating. It’s never that they didn’t have something at home or anything like that. If it were- they’d solve the problem in the relationship. The person chose to step out because that’s who they chose to be. It has nothing to do with you. Don’t make this your fault.

[242plusInfinity]

That's not always true. I've heard a million women say, "He doesn't even look at me anymore" or "he doesn't give me any attention" etc etc.

[prettytulips]

That still doesn’t mean that when he cheats on her, that it’s her fault lol. If you don’t want to be in a relationship then end it- don’t lie and cheat on someone who is still faithful to you. If a person no longer wants to go sleep around they should get out of their relationship first. If they don’t, it’s their fault 100% and not the person they cheated on. No matter what

[242plusInfinity]

I'm talking about if a girl cheats not a guy. Many girls cheat because their man stops showing them attention. That is the mans fault... Now it can be her fault too if she didn't communicate with him about it. Whether she leaves him or cheats on him that is his fault. He is to blame for some of that. Now if everything was great (as promised since the beginning) and still that women was cheating that would be because she just desired to do so regardless of her great relationship.

[242plusInfinity]

You're putting 100% fault on the cheater and that's just not always the case. Everyone is at fault for what happens in their life. Maybe not 100% fault but some of the blame is theirs.

[prettytulips]

If ANYONE cheats. I don’t care if it’s the man or woman. It was that persons decision and the other person they are with is not to blame AT ALL because they were not there. If you don’t like what’s happening in a relationship you should try and solve the problem or break up and sleep with anyone you want.

[242plusInfinity]

We'll have to agree to disagree. I agree with everything you've said except it not being both their faults. I believe it is both their faults. Might be an indirect blame vs a direct blame but nevertheless I see it as both their faults. Some decision (s) they both made led to it. It is directly the cheaters fault though. Indirectly the other persons fault. They dated that person and did certain things or didn't do certain things that led to that. If I get a D on a test and my dad beats me till im black and blue... and I almost die... That is his fault directly but it is my fault indirectly. If it is indirectly your fault that is nothing to be ashamed of. You just clearly dont know how to select or be in a thriving relationship yet. Anyway though we agree to disagree.

[20yearsolder]

Opportunity, The Chase. Someone different desiring him.

[Asker]

You would be right I confronted him and he admitted that he did it because it feels nice to know there are still random girls that would get with him, I said well that’s fucked up since we’ve been together so long and I’ve remained faithful and done everything for you. I told him if that’s what he wants to do then we can both go do that. He wasn’t a fan of that idea

[20yearsolder]

Yeah I bet he wasn't a big fan of that lol. That short decision to be faithful, it's also your decision whether to stay with him or not.

[Light909090]

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but Your just not enough sexually

[Anonymous]

Honestly this is one question I have no clue. Only makes sense if the girl is better looking then the girl you already got or she is more a fit.

[In_Trance]

The same thing that would cause a woman to cheat if this was reversed

[sunflower00]

He’s greedy