Girl I like isn’t interested in me. I’m trying to walk away but why does it hurt not being able to tell her how I feel. ?

[Anonymous]

[Aerolyn]

I mean, you can telk her how you feel if you really wanted to, but like as you say that she isn't intrested in you you'd know that it probably wouldn't change anything.

Either way it probably just hurts due to the feeling of rejection you're having, which is normal.

Just keep walking away, you'll get over it soon enough.

I just hope for your sake that this girl you gotta crush on isn't someone you have to see everyday for whatever reason.

[Asker]

We work at the same place. So every once in awhile we would bump into each other... though lately she’s been changing her routes so we don’t bump into each other (I think)

[HollyK21]

How do you know she’s not interested?

[Asker]

Based on how she replies my texts and never addresses what I say nor ask me anything else.

[HollyK21]

That may not be the best indicator. Not everyone is big on texts, I know me and my boyfriend keep it minimal because we prefer talking in person, maybe it’s because I see him all the time. But moral of the story is, maybe you should tell her how you feel and see what happens. I mean the way I see it is if she’s not interested you would back off, and if you say nothing you were gonna back off as well, so it’s not really a loss if the feeling isn’t mutual.