Will I ever be able to welcome a child of my own into this world?

[LonelyAndBig]

I am turning 28 on Friday and never had a real girlfriend. I also haven't touched a woman in over 7 years, going on 8.

I only want a woman without a romantic past, meaning no previous boyfriends or first love. I fear I may never find that and end up alone for life

Yes

No

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[justmeme]

"I only want a woman without a romantic past, meaning no previous boyfriends or first love. I fear I may never find that and end up alone for life"

I think you need to evaluate this and why it is so important to you. Possibly go see a therapist and work on your own self worth because how can you expect someone to love you when you clearly can't love yourself enough to believe you are worthy.

Also if you want a woman without a past you are going to struggle and make sure you look in the right places, the only things that spring to mind are age gap relationships or religious relationships which is why I would highly suggest working through these things with someone to help you truly gain perspective.

You honestly could be putting way too much of a checklist of high standards that are near impossible for anyone to meet. You have to look at how old you are and think are these things realistic, especially in society today. Are you looking in the right places if you aren't willing to change your perspective? Just some food for thought

[LonelyAndBig]

I will not settle for less. I almost had exactly what I wanted one time, but she rejected me upon meeting in person the first time.

[Twalli]

So you'd rather be alone than have a girl who may genuinely love you.

[justmeme]

Well then I can't help you further. I've suggested therapy or potential places to look. You will struggle the older you get as you will basically be looking for a unicorn.

Personally I would rather adjust my standards and be loved than be alone and unhappy

[Anonymous]

No, if you keep being like this you never will. Go and see a therapist, you desperately need it. If you’ve tried that without luck then continue seeing new ones until it works.

[LonelyAndBig]

Keep going like what?

[Twalli]

How many accounts do you make to ask THE SAME EXACT QUESTION?