I have been, bullied and abused my entire life. Do I have chance for relationship or are women disgusted with my weakness?

[Anonymous]

[Googlemyahoo]

I knew a guy in Highschool that was bullied and a dork. One day I forgot my book in the desk. The dork approached and said he sat in my spot in the next class and returned my book said he read it too. Found out we had similar interests.

We kept talking over time and I told my friends to leave him alone. Then he said his parents put him into self defence. Next time he got picked on he knocked them out in the middle of the cafeteria.

Nobody bothered him after that. So stand up for yourself and make an example of someone who picks on you.

I would recommend this movie 3 o’clock high

https://www.youtube.com/embed/rDpq2DjaQOY

Its about this nerd who accidentally pisses off a guy who challenges him to a fight at 3. Spends entire movie cowering trying to avoid it at all costs until he learns to stand up for himself.

[BJP21]

Is there any part of you that's not human? You have a very good chance if not better.

[Emiliamazing]

The way you’ve been treated can either be a wake up call for you to start standing up for yourself, or you can let it have influence over your actions and behaviors. I would urge you to find the good in yourself and project that outward. It’s there, you just have to realize it.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Your past doesn't matter and past is past. You deserve to be loved. Focus on your future. Believe me, someone will love you for who you are. Cheer up, buttercup😎

[laraWM]

Of course. I guess you fine with it now. So it's part of you but it doesn't define you

[jshm2]

She will probably bully you as well. Maybe go gay instead?

[Ironic_Method]

Yeah. I was bullied and abused as a kid and have been just fine in my relationships.