Am I dumb for not having any experience with women besides getting ghosted or ignored by them? I feel so far behind the curve it's depressing?

[poneglyphs]

I rarely talk to women, most of my friends have a girlfriend's, I try and talk to girl's but in the end I get hurt. I find it ridiculously hard to get dates. I don't bother flirting because I feel like most would shut me down. I'm 27 and still don't feel like I'm good enough for anyone.😕 is it just me who feels hopelessness. I get sad when I see couples or when colleagues talk about their relationships. I get really emotional when I think about how lonely I am and feel like crying 😢. Most of my friends say that they are going to help me get laid but don't. Their girlfriend friends say that I'm not their type or they're not looking for anything when they see me 🥺🥺🥺

Just drunk and just speaking my mind🙃

[Anonymous]

Your issue is not the lack of girlfriend, but lack of purpose. Men have been so conditioned to seek external female validation when they should instead be seeking their life purpose. What were you born to do? why are you here? how can you serve others? When you prioritize females without knowing your purpose, you only waste time. You mention your friends being in relationships but do they know themselves? do they serve others? do they know what they were born to do?

Loneliness is far deeper than being with another. It cannot be solved externally, it needs to be dealt with internally otherwise any relationship you get in will be dependent and needy.

[exitseven]

Yes, if you work on making yourself better the women part of it will take care of itself.

[Kaamraj]

Read and study about RedPill and MGTOW. The is a pareto principle otherwise called the 80-20 or 90-10 rule which stipulates that 80-90% of women are after the top 10-20% of men. It's your job to include yourself in the top cream of men. And harboring such defeatist attitudes for long goes totally against that.

[GurlMaster40]

It doesn’t make you dumb. Dumb in some ways means you can’t work to a better outcome or to be “smarter” .

[poneglyphs]

So, what does it make me then 🤔

[GurlMaster40]

It just makes you, you. You seem to struggle to talk and interact with women, that’s ok, everyone interacts with both genders differently, therefore making them unique. So bottom line, to answer your question, your unique and your you.

[A_stranger]

This may help (I'm not sure if it would though, I haven't read this book)

[Honesttguy]

Look up mystery method to understand how attraction is built, so at least you know why.

[Marshymallow]

At least you’ve got your cat right.

[poneglyphs]

That's all I have and the only pussy that wants to touch me 🥲🥲🥲

[Marshymallow]

You’re drunk FR.

[poneglyphs]

Lol yup drank too much

[UniquelyBasic]

Just pay for sex then.

[poneglyphs]

Might as well but 1000 dollars is a lot of money

[countrygirl8754]

No ur not dumb

[poneglyphs]

No, then what am I

[Fuentes]

Nope keep trying lol