Guys how do you see a woman who belongs to a clique?

[Anonymous]

How do you see a woman who has a clique of friends she’s strongly attached to? like they’re about four of them as a clique, as a man who’s looking for a wife and a good mother to your kids would you want to wife a woman like that or a woman with one very good friend she trusts and cherishes?

[Guy13]

Clique to a man is a negative word and the associated adjectives need not be exampled. Basically, it is a bunch of women with a high tendency to be judgmental, pack-like in their interactions and fearful of outsiders. Usually they are generally branded and the behavior of one is associated with the whole group. Typically there's this one B who makes the rules for the other group members who are forcefully expected to comply through humiliation, retribution, or threat of removal. We can not be sure any member of the Clique is capable of thinking on her own thereby the whole of the Clique is involved in "our" personal relationship. And I am not dealing with her mind controlling posse intrusion via SM, text, and email. Nope, I'm looking for an independent thinker with her own identity...

NOTE, it is the same for guys but we don't have rules and all the other detail like the women. Hope this was helpful and not to rambling or nasty toned ;-)

[Asker]

You have a great point, I also do think that privacy or personal space is prohibited in the context of a clique I. e in a situation where the other members bombard one of the other with bad advice but only from a place of envy, to me nothing is genuine about a clique, there is a weird obsession with each other and the rate at which they monitor themselves to know who’s winning the game

[Guy13]

Nice and thanks for translating my theoretical analysis... you hit it exactly !! One Big Head thinking and Directing the Mass of group members. It is so dictatorial in Nature and that form of governance makes me Cringe... skin crawl. Great question and am hopeful the ladies chime in as well ...

[Charlesbrandonf]

How well she is being a wife and how well she is being a mother to your kids, how you both fit in each other’s life’s matters.


Elon musk is Rich and talented. Is he good at single marriage? No. There also massive decent husbands and wife’s.


So life is full of roles. It depends on how one plays in it.

[FilmGuy93]

Depends ENTIRELY on the kind of clique she's in. Most women have mostly bad friends. Like stunningly, unbelievably bad. The kind of bad that her life would be a thousand better without.