Will men ever notice a girl who’s ‘one of the guys;’ in her friend group?

[SmileyLady]

[ohsheeT]

I think with a female because one of the guys she gets just as loud and obnoxious and outgoing as guys do I think if she wants to be noticed she has to just kind of be a little bit more quiet little bit more set back and listen and learn and show a different demeanor and guys will start to look at her in a different way

[spartan55]

Notice, sure. Take seriously? Na.

[SmileyLady]

Good answer. So how do I get them to take me seriously, then?

[spartan55]

You have an uphill climb. Every single girl who claimed to be 'one of the guys' and 'didn't like hanging out with other women' were complete phonies.

[SmileyLady]

I never said I don’t like being friends with women. I have a group of mostly guy friends, with two tomboy girl friends in it and I have two separate guy friends and two separate girl friends. So I am generally someone outgoing with lots of friends, in general.

[spartan55]

I was speaking in general. Too many guy friends will cramp your love life.

[SmileyLady]

How will they cramp my love life, if they’re like brothers to me? I’m listening, I’m just surprised.

[spartan55]

Because a guy who is a potential boyfriend won't want all those dudes around you. Because they all want to fuck you.

[SmileyLady]

Seriously? I don’t know that all of them do, as they’re all crushing on other women and one that I suspect is gay, friendzoned me.

[spartan55]

Lol... and of course the denial. Call every one of them up and invite them over for Netflix and chill. You will have plenty of takers.

[spartan55]

You think them crushing on other women matters... 😂 😂 😂

[Nikki1989]

Absolutely! Men are attracted to all sorts of women, and “tomboyish” qualities can be incredibly appealing to many.

[SmileyLady]

I’m probably not a tomboy in terms of how I dress, but I do tend to think and behave like a guy.

[eagle1951]

yeah