Girls, Are women who are interested in one certain guy ever concerned that a good looking guy can find other girls?

[Anonymous]

[_Maya_]

Nah. I am not going to be insecure like that. Bad recipe for a relationship. If he could possibly get other girls good for him. The important part is he wants to be with me. He shows me that and I have no concern what he could do. It is more about what he did do which was want to be with me. Living with insecurities like that in a relationship never works and often is the downfall of the relationship itself. Just be happy the person wants to be with you and not worry about other people.

[Asker]

I don’t know I know a girl and it seems she kinda pushed me aside and said I know you can get other girls, go find a white girl or go find a girl who’s into basketball. I was like :-s

[_Maya_]

Wtf lol. That is so weird. She sounds really insecure. Either that or it was her way of saying no thanks and not interested. Either way just weird.

[Asker]

We talked on the phone, met on dates, chatted a lot, there was an interest on her end but I don’t know I can’t control or truly know how a girl feels. If I ask what’s up? I doubt I’m going to get a straight answer.

[_Maya_]

It honestly doesn't sound like you are going to get a straight answer. I agree with that. She sounds very insecure. I mention the problems that come with that in my opinion.

[provokeesmokee]

Maybe? It's like any competition, you want to win. But it's also not a black and white thing or something you can control.

Who a guy likes is ultimately his own decision.

Getting upset or fearful over that is kinda suffering twice. Once for the fear or apprehension, again if it turns out true.

Why worry? Just have fun and be genuine. If he likes you most, he'll choose you. If it isn't you, move on and do your best to be happy for him.

[Dinklex3]

?

No. The same can be said for them.

We all have options, but chose that specific person for a reason.

[leahzrc]

it happens but we all have a soul mate, if we care.
so if things don't work out, they don't work out

[Lady_Heart]

Even a not so good looking men can still find other girls. Thats unnecessary concern to live with. Do your best with ur guy n the rest will follow

[DreamLife7]

His looks won't pay the bills. I prefer a man w/money

[Monalisa77]

So ud settle instead of getting a job?

[DreamLife7]

@Monalisa77 re read your question then think..

[Monalisa77]

No idea what u mean, u can't force yourself to be attracted to a man just cos he has money

[DreamLife7]

@Monalisa77 the girls who get it, get it. It''s usually the pretty ones who get it.

[Monalisa77]

Pretty airheads who can't work for themselves n can get any guy they wanted. Hardly got ambition

[DreamLife7]

@Monalisa77 OK faceless🤣

[Nikki1989]

Nope. Men are easy to find.

[Anonymous]

Yeah. That’s why I never act upon that interest.

[Asker]

What interest?

[Sunflower766]

Always when i got a crush