Do you believe in “ If you love someone set it free” ?

[Anonymous]

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What about results? What it means?

[caring__1]

This doesn't mean kicking them to the street. It means allowing them to discover themselves and be true to themselves. By clinging to people, they can only become a reaction to us. The best relationships are with people who choose to be with us, not have to be with us. When I love someone, I'd prefer seeing her happy with her soulmate than feeling stuck with me. If I'm her soulmate, and she chooses to be with me, I don't have to hold onto her for her to stay. Give people the opportunity to choose rather than selfishly insist your desires are the only important desires.

[Asker]

It sounds selfless and in general people are selfish

[caring__1]

That is true, but would you prefer modeling positive behavior or going along with the masses and just focusing on yourself? I understand people nowadays primarily think about themselves, but if we use that to legitimize the same behavior, we're just reinforcing the pattern for the next generation.

[Asker]

This doesn’t require only to be selfless. It requires braveness! None nowadays want to be hurt! Unfortunately majority of people are emotionally scared!

[caring__1]

That is the reason, we want to learn to be observant and trust what actually exists, rather than see just what we want to see or what we fear seeing. It's common for people to admit they saw red flags early in the relationship, but they overlooked them, believing all will work out fine. Trust your gut level feelings.

No healthy person has ever wanted to be hurt. People are emotionally scarred, because society promotes self-focus and devalues consideration for others. People don't seem to realize those we step on to get ahead will step on us when we fall down. We can't change the world, but maybe we can have some influence on those we care about.

[NathanDavis]

that does sound like the romanticization of toxic relationships...

so nope, I'm not up for any of that...

[Asker]

I think its the opposite! The toxic relationship is created by selfish people that wouldn’t letting go

[NathanDavis]

well, I do believe in the other kind of love that gives you all kinds of greatness... and not reasons to split and drift apart, leave it to chance...

[Asker]

Yeah! But love isn’t perfect, neither the life!

[NathanDavis]

that is very true... life can get in the way of love, yes

[Tina19]

Definition of love is different to everyone
For me i can love a person and still choose to not have relationship with them

And it's been said to set them free because it's believed that if that person is meant to be in your life they will eventually come back to you

[Asker]

How can resist to let them go than? To choose to mot have a relationship with someone you love? Isn’t that to painful?

[vj0090]

Like a open relationship?

[Tina19]

When your love towards them is selfless and you don't expect anything in return it isn't painful anymore

[Tina19]

@vj0090 not an open relationship

[Asker]

A selfless love? Love is greedy

[Tina19]

Speaking of the current time we are living in true love which is selfless is rare gem and yes mostly it's shallow and selfish hence relationship fail easily nowdays

[Sour-rose]

Nah. :) If you love them, don't let them leave... so easily. Otherwise, it could go any way you didn't see comin'

[TheMajesticKing777]

I believe it's perfect for some situations but not when it comes to people and whatnot

[Asker]

Why?

[TheMajesticKing777]

Cause I think it depends, there must be some sort of reason that the right choice is for both people to be apart

[DryGermanGuy]

People should really stop trying to find any deeper sense in the captions on refrigerator magnets… 🤔

[Asker]

😂😂😂

Yes! But I think that this caption is already too deep. Im doing the opposite,,, Im putting in a banal context to fully understand it

[DryGermanGuy]

Without any real context it means nothing, really. It’s similar to people citing Sun-Tsu all the time, because it sounds „profound“.

[exitseven]

Yes, and if they don't come back you track them down.

[Anonymous]

Yes I love many girls I set it free because I have many options...

[Asker]

😂😂😂 I don’t think that’s pretty related

[Opinion Owner]

It is...
Only person who set it free always have options.

Trust me darling.

[Asker]

Yeah.. but love is mentioned.. it’s not love the genuine feeling?

[Opinion Owner]

Love is scam baby...
It's designed to get girl on bed 😘

[Asker]

You sound like a boy, whose heart has been broken badly in the past… you will fall one day I guarantee u.. and the ones who say that love is untrue, fall badly

[Opinion Owner]

Aw you're so innocent darling 😘

[TroyDT]

If it is genuinely love then you want what is best for the other person. So "Yes."

[vj0090]

Yessss.. Live and let live..

[Anonymous]

that's dumb and no i don't

[Lastdoctorwho]

Yes.