What do you think of other when people when they Are vulnerable?

[Anonymous]

Please let me know<3 this is when other people Are vulnerable, what do you think of it, and not familiy but other like friends, and other people

[ZXCwWRQWz]

It's annoying but I'm okay with it if it doesn't happen all the time.

[Asker]

Why do you think its annoying?

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Depends on the mood and situation. If a girl wants to be vulnerable with me in the bedroom when we're hugging and opening up then I'm down. Sometimes I even like it. But if a friend wants to be all vulnerable at a birthday party ruining the laughter and fun and bringing up really heavy stuff then it's a real drag. So it's about timing for me.

[Asker]

Agree, timing is everything

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Self-awareness too. Like if u look at great comedians, they can go into some really heavy and fucked up shit that makes them so vulnerable, but they turn it into a joke and make everyone laugh. They know when they're losing the audience with their material if it's too heavy without a punchline at the end. But some people are just chronically dramatic and they have no sense of what everyone around them is feeling when they dump their vulnerable shit on everyone else, and everyone is trying to be nice and say nice things but they're also like, if you pay attention to them, "Help me, this is getting miserable and I wanna escape!"