Talking to your partner during the act?

[William7489]

How comfortable are women talking to their partner during intimacy about what things their partner can do to make them feel better? Or do most women prefer not to say anything?

I talk openly with my lover

I am not comfortable talking during intimacy

[mandyfire98]

I talk openly, you can tell them what you'd like them to do and incorporate dirty talk. Kills 2 birds with one stone. I've always been very vocal during sex.

[William7489]

Amen to that. I so prefer it when my partner tells me what feels best so I can do what I have to rather than trying to guess. I really like your strategy. Thanks again for sharing.

[mandyfire98]

No problem. Communication is always good.

[Beatrix7]

only dirty talk yeah am a very dirty bitch st that point the things we say to each other are so hot

[Beatrix7]

a know how to turn men on with sex saying or a story or make up hot things give me a ask nd wait nd see av been told from a lot of people i could be a sex opiratoron this and people i know

[William7489]

Sounds like you are a very generous lover. Thank you for sharing

[Beatrix7]

pm me and awl show you how good iam with making up storys sexy ones things to make them sound hot nd hinky

[Shaysturn]

For the most part, I will talk openly. However, with a new man, it may take me a few times because I am more focused on what kinds of things he does without me saying anything. I mean who knows, maybe I’ll like something new that I would’ve never otherwise uncovered if I controlled the whole thing all the time.
I could probably be better at vocalizing what makes me feel good just for the simple fact men love that kind of thing, but it’s not like I lay there miserable and don’t say anything. I am a moaner and sometimes a screamer. I feel like that indicates pleasure just as well, right?

[William7489]

No question, and I think that’s really the most pragmatic and smart way to go about it. You have a great attitude about intimacy and are obviously mature and confident. It’s really healthy to be able to express yourself like that. Good for you!

[Shaysturn]

Well thank you! I appreciate that!

[AshLee83]

I can and will openly talk to my lover but I prefer to guide or show them!!! 💗 I love when a man lets me know what they like most, especially when they vocalize their preference without many “words”!!! 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

[William7489]

I get the feeling, that you don’t ever get any complaints in that department.

[AshLee83]

I am a very good listener!!! Also, body language is very telling.

[Tennessee_fan]

Very well said

[AshLee83]

@Tennesee_fan Thank you!!

[Tennessee_fan]

Your welcome I have to say pretty much everything with you has been like amazingly said

[AshLee83]

Awe…. so sweet! Thanks!!! 💗💗

[Tennessee_fan]

You have a good way of answering stuff that's for sure I'd like to talk sometime if that's ok maybe get to know you as a friend

[boobliker]

put her off to make her work harder to make it last longer that's what most of us really want in sex act?

[Anonymous]

I would talk to my lover

I think it's very respectful to be open bout what you want so that both parties can be satisfied