Who gets upset seeing other people with things in their personal life you wish you had?

[Anonymous]

It’s at this point (33) where I feel like there are more people my age who are married, and even have kids, then who aren’t. And it’s getting very noticeable and I’m really tired of being alone. But I also feel like I didn’t get to have fun the way I should’ve when I was younger because I am not very fortunate in the social aspect. So I’d like to do some of that too. Yeah I don’t know what to do anymore.

[Anonymous]

I went through that from 20-25. It seemed like in that juncture of time, everyone was having babies and/or settling down. It wasn’t until later that I realized we are all on our own individual journeys, and comparing my position in life to someone else’s does nothing but bring me down. We all get the same 24 hours in the day, and if you don’t feel like you’re accomplishing anything with your time then maybe you should start. I believe that the marriage and kids come when it is time.

[Asker]

20 to 25 is a bit young for that

[Opinion Owner]

I completely agree, but it seemed like people were getting straight out of high school or college then having a kid or shacking up. I lost quite a few friends due to them getting into a relationship.

[Asker]

Where are you from? Hmm

[Gloree]

I know the feeling. But didn't let it fester because everyone's time is different. You will find someone. Just be open to friendship.

[Asker]

Why did you not start dating until 34?

[Gloree]

Well, the guys coming to me were not sincere. Made me develop a phobia for men especially after watching my older cousins go from relationship to relationship. At some point I told myself I might be single for life but this guy came along. he I's everything I ever wanted from a man.

[Asker]

How did that happen and where are you from?

[Anonymous]

When I was younger. But through hard work and just time I've financially better off than MOST my peers.

[Pot8o]

Remind yourself every day that You Only Live Once