Do you get really jealous or upset when someone important in your life could care less about how you feel?

[Anonymous]

[Price511]

Yes, I get upset and jealous.


I get upset because of how insensitive they are to my own feelings and wants, and how I judged their integrity and character so wrongly that they would treat me in such a way. Nobody important to me should ever treat me, or anyone else for that matter, like that.


Yet, for some reason, I feel envious. I wish I didn’t care like they did. I wish I could be heartless and not feel pain every time I wanted to care much less, to cut that wire that makes me feel this inherent urge to take care not to hurt others and to care for how they feel. It would be so much easier.
But I know that the envy is a very deceptive tempter.

[es20490446e]

No, it's their problem. I just set my basic standards, and if you don't fulfill them I simply don't deal with you.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

If someone could care less how you feel, then you’re not important in their life so then maybe they shouldn’t be important in yours either..

[whereismyjohnny]

I get upset and disappointed.

[Blackcupcake]

not jealous but upset yes

[collie22]

That would be depressing