Is it bad to feel bored in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I know this sounds bad but I feel like I'm just in the same routine doing the same stuff everyday... I love the man I'm with I just feel bored though... is this normal?

[kylee2437]

Yes it is bad. That means nothing is being done to keep the love going and having spontaneous moments in the relationship. That also means that you two have both gotten too comfort to the point where you feel like there’s no need to impress each other.

[Staximus]

Well what do you want to do? Tell him let's do do some fun stuff. Is he a good guy? The grass ain't any greener on the other side of the hill with some other guy. Once you get past that crush\new relationship stage and settle down, it's just everyday life like "what do you want to eat tonight" or "what do you want to do this weekend?" Do you want to go out and do crazy shit like smoke meth and get fucked behind a dumpster? Do you want a piece of shit guy instead who treats you bad? Or do you want a rich guy who will fly you around the world and all that fancy shit? What the hell do you want?

[Guy13]

It is bad to be bored because when we are we are susceptible to cheating...

[SlothySlob]

Why not just ask the guy if the two of you can go on a date or a little trip or whatever?

[Iron_Man]

Travel do fun things together Don’t just sit around the house