What does he want here?

Anonymous

So, I have been dating a guy for the past 3 years and 4 months. It's a long-distance relationship but we do meet here and there and stay together for a week. Recently we also went on a trip as well. We started dating in the mid of 2019 and then the pandemic hit so couldn't meet for a long duration. When things started opening up we started meeting then so far we have met 3 times and we stay together for a week at each other's place. A few days back we talked about where the relationship is going as we both could feel it was not going anywhere. I asked him does he love me he just replied that I worry about him. I don't feel love in general and even told me that he doesn't have any sort of confidence in the relationship as in that it will last Ir something. He told me that we should stay together for a few months or a year to figure out if we are compatible or not. He also told me not to downplay my career cause of this relationship.

Does all this mean that he is not into me and we should call things off with each other cause these days we are also not communicating the way we used to. I am confused here.

What does he want here?
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