Guy said we’ll see where things go?

[Anonymous]

I was seeing a 55 year old man for 4 months , we had a little fight just a misunderstanding. He said he got his feelings hurt. I had already apologized before for my wrong doing. For the last 3 weeks he’s been distance and like he friend zone me. I asked about it and he said he doesn’t want to see me in person because we’ll end up have sex and all but we are talking and let’s see where things go. ? I am confuse what does this mean? He also has been lying to me about being things also. He said I was taking away his time from friends and stuff which I never met his friends nor did I ever schedule dates I left that up to him!!!

[Effably]

Ah romance. If I didn't know the years and you told me you were 16 I'd believe it. Same for 25, 35, so on. I guess it doesn't change much.

But the end is still the same. Communicate. If meeting is somehow a no, use a call. Then meet and you know, other stuff if you want. But really, if all he wants is a clear mind, all you need to do is get to a point where he admits that and then meet him somewhere along the way.

Ah, the follies of you young kids. Back in my day...