Do you think a person being cheated on is also responsible for the cheating most of the time?

[Anonymous]

I'm talking about most of the time

Yes

Yes if women are cheating

Yes if men are cheating

No

Updates

+1 y

I mean like partly responsible, not entirely

[mobiusforniner]

Unless the cheater is a total ass hat, yes, because there's something wrong with the relationship that makes someone seek love or needs elsewhere.

[SiberFox]

The cheater is always wrong.
The cheated might not have been attentive or present or what have you, but in thw end the cheater is at fault

[Nikki1989]

People usually cheat when something is wrong with the primary relationship.

[Ironic_Method]

No. If you feel the need to cheat, then you need to tell your partner your issues or break up with them.

[TroyDT2]

No. That is victim blaming. The cheater is responsible.