Is it ethical for a man to let his wife sits with his male friends?

[TonyMetal___86]

For example: your male friends are coming to visit you, is it okay if your wife sits with them, since she's the only female in the group?

[Sorrento-Sun]

Yes. I don't see the issue.

I once went out for drinks with my boyfriend and his group of friends. I was the only female in the group. We all had a good night.

Obviously it shouldn't happen all the time, because a guy should be able to spend time on his with his friends.

A woman shouldn't make it a habit of sitting with him and his friends, because that's his time with his friends. It's good for him to be able to chill with just his friends

[TonyMetal___86]

That's good, thanks for sharing but you were lucky cause his friends were respectful and nothing wrong had happened!

[Sorrento-Sun]

You're welcome

[Anonymous]

Why can't she sit wherever she likes or do want to control that too?

[TonyMetal___86]

It's not about control, i said if it's ethical cause it's a group of guys and she's the only female...
It will sound and look weird, i don't think that they will comfortable neither do you!
Maybe one of the guys is a womanizer...

Is it okay for you if your husband sits with your female friends without any male presence? I mean would you feel comfortable?

[Crankor]

The key is how often it happens. From what I've seen, any guy can and will slowly push his boundaries with any girl the more they are around them. Girls aren't the best at turning down that kind of attention either

[TonyMetal___86]

Finally someone who understands what i meant...
I don't expect girls to know the real answer but we men do know what happens and what's lurking behind this good face and good treatment 😄

[USLegionary]

Yes. If you can't trust the woman you married then you married the wrong woman.

[TonyMetal___86]

It ain't about trust, why would you put yourself in a bad position? Men topics might bother women and the woman might find it wrong and a lot of men might flirt or makes you uncomfortable and will make the wife uncomfortable...

In the end it's up to the couples!

It's not about trust, it's about being different and just feels wrong!

Imagine yourself being the only man in a group of women, their topics might be lame for you and you might feel bothered or uncomfortable, maybe they will talk about pregnancies, tampons, periods 🤣🤣

If it's a bunch of men and women than no problem but all men and a 1 woman intruder feels wrong...

[FilmGuy93]

I don't see why it would be unethical, but it doesn't seem like a very good idea though.

[TonyMetal___86]

That's what i meant

[FilmGuy93]

Gotcha, that makes sense! Yeah, sorry, I have a tough time turning off my inner lawyer.

[Summeroflove]

I guess so? Long as that’s all it is. Not everything is about sex

[spartan55]

Ethical? I think appropriate is a better term. I don't 'let' my wife sit. She sits where she wants..

[TonyMetal___86]

Both words can work, so you don't mind if she sits with a group of guys...

[spartan55]

Of course not.

[TonyMetal___86]

Gd for you

[spartan55]

She knows how to say no and take care of herself.

[TonyMetal___86]

Okay but why would she put herself in this position from the 1st place...

[spartan55]

If it were a party and the group happened to be just guys. Not a risky situation.

[TonyMetal___86]

Yep i agree about this...
It's not about danger, it's about being uncomfortable and maybe some will flirt with her and these acts might cause some tentions between you and the other guys and the woman will be bothered and we know that such things happens a lot...

[Anonymous]

Yes because you're a cuck

[nawtee_me]

message me

[Opinion Owner]

Why?

[TonyMetal___86]

@anonymous, better be a cuck than a cheap h*e!
Why are you showing me yourself in this thot dress, you think that i give a sh*t about you...
Piss off!

[Opinion Owner]

Go cry about it you man whore

[TonyMetal___86]

Oh really? I will but before that you're reported and blocked, now bark alone 🤣

[Shiface92]

🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿🫢😯🫢

[melanieeeB]

Of course, if my future man even tries to have the attitude like this question, he is going to be single

[TonyMetal___86]

Really? So fast 🤣
I suggest that you don't even plan on getting married if that's how you think!

Why would you want to sit with a bunch of guys if you're married? 😏

Personally i'm neutral but if i was married and a group of guys came to visit me than i prefer that she doesn't sits with us because 90% of men have dirty minds and i don't need problems!

[melanieeeB]

Why not? It's not a crime to be sitting next to men, no matter your status.
How insecure can someone be, feeling threatened by something so meaningless

[TonyMetal___86]

It ain't a crime to sit next to men and a single girl ain't like a married one!
She can sit, i mean in the end she's with her husband but the problem ain't in the wife, the problem is found in the bunch of guys who are around her...

Men and women are different, the way they think and act is different, in the end it's something to compromise about with your future husband!

Personally i do not like to have my future wife sitting with my male friends, especially if they were a group!

Not all men are respectful and some have the flirting habit in their blood...

It's not about unsecurities, i mean the wife might be a good wife and will act if something wrong happens but why would i bother from the 1st place and put ourselves in a bad place...

[Redstang88]

Umm yeah, why wouldn’t it be?

[TonyMetal___86]

Because men are angels 😂😂

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend doesn’t seem to mind.

[TonyMetal___86]

If he doesn't mind, what about you? Do you feel comfortable around his friends while you're the only female?

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t mind, i grew up with boys, I’m the only daughter and have two brothers and was neighbors with two male of my cousins for 20+ years (they’re practically like my brothers too lol) we all used to hang out together, play video games and laugh and do boy things together, I also have self respect so he knows I’m not gonna do him dirty

[Opinion Owner]

Two of my male cousins **

[Opinion Owner]

Also I’m not a hottie, I doubt any of his friends ever look at me in a sexual way, they are very respectful towards me and my boyfriend also they respect boundaries in general… my boyfriend has a small circle of guy friends who have been his friends for more than 10 years

[TonyMetal___86]

That's good 👍🏻