So two months ago, my ex and I had an argument where I just wanted to be feel acknowledged by him when I got home and he acted like he couldn’t acknowledge me so we had an argument and I cried to him about it. The next morning I tried communicating with him and said that sometimes he makes me feel unappreciated.
Afterwards, he came back and told me some hurtful things… for example, one thing he said was, “you want to jump all over me about not caring when you’ve done little to nothing worth caring about” along with him saying “I was hoping to find someone real and on growth”
Mind you, I have done so much for him. I have literally been there for him anytime he’s ever needed me, I’ve been a best friend to him literally. I’ve done so much just for him to spit in my face and tell me that little to nothing I’ve ever done was worth caring out.
Would you try to work things out with them if you felt like they truly didn’t mean it? How would this make you feel if your significant other said these things to you?
A crucial side note to be taken into consideration as well is that it’s been two months and he’s been trying to get back with me just about everyday saying that he twisted everything he meant to say. But the part that gets me the most is him saying “I was hoping to find someone real” and this and that. Because it’s basically telling me that I’m not what he’s looking for. Like I said, he’s been trying to get back with me for two months and saying he wants to marry me. He said he will work on communicating properly and to not let such hurtful things come out of his mouth ever again.
Knowing all of this, would you try to work it out if you loved him/her? It has been two months and I have been crying over him everyday, and I’ve found out secretly that he has been crying over me as well.
I really need some good advice. I am at a war between my mind and my heart, and I just don’t know what to do. PLEASE HELP ME! This pain is eating away at my heart.
Afterwards, he came back and told me some hurtful things… for example, one thing he said was, “you want to jump all over me about not caring when you’ve done little to nothing worth caring about” along with him saying “I was hoping to find someone real and on growth”
Mind you, I have done so much for him. I have literally been there for him anytime he’s ever needed me, I’ve been a best friend to him literally. I’ve done so much just for him to spit in my face and tell me that little to nothing I’ve ever done was worth caring out.
Would you try to work things out with them if you felt like they truly didn’t mean it? How would this make you feel if your significant other said these things to you?
A crucial side note to be taken into consideration as well is that it’s been two months and he’s been trying to get back with me just about everyday saying that he twisted everything he meant to say. But the part that gets me the most is him saying “I was hoping to find someone real” and this and that. Because it’s basically telling me that I’m not what he’s looking for. Like I said, he’s been trying to get back with me for two months and saying he wants to marry me. He said he will work on communicating properly and to not let such hurtful things come out of his mouth ever again.
Knowing all of this, would you try to work it out if you loved him/her? It has been two months and I have been crying over him everyday, and I’ve found out secretly that he has been crying over me as well.
I really need some good advice. I am at a war between my mind and my heart, and I just don’t know what to do. PLEASE HELP ME! This pain is eating away at my heart.
