My fiance cheated on me for 8 months while he was in another country and she doesn't know that he is engaged.. I want to talk to her.. is it true?

[Anonymous]

[D_Bone_Steak]

Talk to her... be like, "I have nothing against you, but I just need to know... my beef is with him if it did happen" If you come across as like "awe hell no, you betta not of been touching my man" then you're a retard.

See with the info you gave you could be either the one that needs that guy and is trying to beat bitches off him with a stick or you could be trying to decide if you really need to be with a guy that fucks other bitches with every chance he gets.

If you already know he cheated then just get the fuck outta there though. If you're not sure and just need verification in order to validate leaving that guy in the dust... then talk to her, because she is actually your best friend if she did sleep with your man... it may not feel like it, but trust me, in time you'll understand.

[Asker]

Yes i know he cheated on me he told me that
But i dont understand why he didn't tell her about us !!

[D_Bone_Steak]

You should let her know... just like the speech I just gave you, she could react to in either with the "fuck you" or the "holy shit I didn't know, what a fucking bastard he is"

Either reaction though... you stay with him and you're with a guy that will fuck a chick that says fuck you to you, or a chick that thinks he's a fucking bastard.

You should let her know though... for her own sake and for yours. She finds out from you and still fucks him again... yeah, just as dumb as you staying with him. She finds out and never talks to him again... you just fucked up his exit plan, the other option, and saved her from some heart ache.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Whatever her reaction though... don't get mad at her. She probably didn't even know he had you. She never promised you not to sleep with your man. She is definitely not what you're man has done.

When my girl cheated on me, I had to fight that gut reaction to be pissed off at a dude that knowingly fucked a taken girl as if it was personal... no, he was a dude just trying to get laid and my girl let it happen, it was all her and not his fault. This chick probably isn't even that bad and if she is, then she deserves him more than you.

[spartan55]

How do you know what she knows? How did you find out he is cheating?

[Asker]

He told me !

[spartan55]

You didn't answer the first part.

[Asker]

Yes he told me that he cheated on me
When i ask him :did she know about us
He told me she did not.. he did not told her about us !

[spartan55]

Not surprising. I don't understand what you think you have to gain by talking the that woman.

[Cuddlekisser]

Fiance? So he pays you for sex in a LTR? Why can it be cheating then after all?

[Cuddlekisser]

Maybe now he can find real love now and can finally dump you.

[Asker]

Sorry what do you mean?

[Cuddlekisser]

I mean Google is a real asshole and translated fiance to whore in my language... Holy shit... I am sorry.

[Cuddlekisser]

I mean someone who pays someone to have sex on a monthly base.

[Staximus]

What the hell do you need to talk to her for? Just leave the cheating bastard and move on with your life.

[18Uma21]

Dump him now without saying a word

[Asker]

Yes i do it
But i want that girl to know him

[18Uma21]

Don't do that. He is none of your business anymore. Get rid of him as though he was never in your life

[YakubDavid]

Call the marriage off.

[In_Trance]

What do you need to talk to her for?

[Asker]

I want to tell her about us
He lied to her.. she is a cheat !
I dont know i get mad