My fiance told me he loves another girl.. he cheated on me with her.. how could I handle this?

[Anonymous]

We were in 7 year relationship.. i loved him so much.. i always think what is wrong with me to make him cheat and loves another woman.. i feel like i am not enough i feel like nobody will love me anymore

[Anonymous]

I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult situation. Handling infidelity can be incredibly painful. It's important to remember that someone else's choices are not a reflection of your worth. It's not your fault that your fiance cheated. Here are some steps to consider:

Allow yourself to grieve and process your feelings. It's normal to feel a range of emotions, including sadness, anger, and confusion.

Sharing your feelings with a close friend or family member can be comforting and provide support.

Take care of your physical and emotional well-being through activities like exercise, meditation, or hobbies.

Use this time to evaluate what you want in a relationship and what makes you happy.

Communicate with your fiance. If you choose to, have an open and honest conversation with him to understand the situation better.

Remember, you are deserving of love and respect. You can heal and move forward from this painful experience, and there are people who will appreciate and love you for who you are.

[Anonymous]

Well it all depends. Is he willing to talk? If not you don’t have much of a choice other than to accept it and move on. It’s hard to say why he cheated on you. I don’t know you personally. So you could have a bad personality or something I don’t know. But I would think of someone had a bad personality they wouldn’t stay w that person for 7 years.

[Anonymous]

You haven’t even made it to the alter, and he already broke the marriage covenant. Cheating is a series of choices; a choice to be honest or deceitful, a choice to be faithful or faithless, selfish or selfless, a choice to build or to destroy, a choice to reconcile or to break apart.
His cheating has nothing to do with you, but it has everything to do with his own priorities and morals. It is not your fault.

Your fiancé put himself first when he should have put you first. That is not on you. That’s on him.
This may sound terrible, but I’m glad he revealed his true colors before you got married. I know it hurts, and it’s going to hurt for a while. But my friend, the end of this relationship does not mean that nobody else will ever love you. The end of this relationship is not a death sentence for any and all future relationships. I have a feeling that someone else will come along soon and this moment of your life will become a distant memory.

[Nirmroth]

The grass is always greener on the other side. There could be many reasons why he decided to cheat, its worth thinking about it to be able to do better or see signals early next time in a new relationship. See this experience as growth opportunity not as character flaw.

Dont ever take his cheating ass back tho what I mean above is making the best out of the situation.

[AmeerX]

If you have been with someone that long to hear betrayal then it definitely will need time.

I can't believe someone would do something like that. And hey, rest assured someone will love you. God loves you. Your parents who cared for you love you. You friends probably have a secret crush on you 😉.

Hey, you have good health so please don't feel sorrow 🙏. You are worthy of love just the guy turned out to be a moron 😔

[jahaims]

There is something wrong with the cheater not you.