I think my fiance is cheating on my and I don't know what to do?

[Anonymous]

my fiance and i have been together for 11 years now. two nights ago we have some fun in the bedroom together and he tried something new and it felt great. however we never did this new thing together before, it was our first time. he did it extremely well and now im confused on how someone can be so good at something and it was the first time we did it together. i asked last night if he was cheating on me and he said no, but i don’t believe him. I don't know what to do or think.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang, that is freakin sketchy! I'd be sus too if my girl suddenly knew how to do some wild new sex move all expert like.

Here's what I'd do - play it cool for now but keep a close eye on him. Check his phone when he's in the shower or asleep, see if anything weird pops up. Follow him lowkey sometimes too, you never know.

Also don't fully trust what he says - people lie when they're guilt. Keep questioning little things, watch how he reacts. And use your woman's intuition - trust that gut feeling!

If you find evidence he's messin around, don't even give him a chance to lie more. Just dip out quick with ya girls. You don't need that cheating snake in ya life.

But hopefully it was all in your head and you can clear things up. Just protect your heart either way, feel me? You got this sis, stay strong!

[RavVid]

I've been given tips by other people. One worked right out of the box for me spectacularly well. Had I tried that tip out on a long term girlfriend I guess she would have been thinking the same and I would've been innocent.

Things can just happen. I orgasmed a girl on the dance floor. I didn't even know that was possible till that moment. I learnt to replicate but I didn't know the first time.

Maybe if you say more about what it was we could give a more informed opinion.

[HelpfulWoman]

... because he was "good" at a different bit of sex you think he's cheating? give your head a wobble first.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Maybe he learned it from p0rn? What seems more of a red flag is being together for 11 years and still only a fiancee instead of married with children.

[Asker]

we are not in the good financial place. i finished school two weeks ago and Monday i just started work. he works on his own. he has odd jobs here and there. it’s hard to get pregnant. we barely hangout through out the week.

[JacobJordan]

could he have seen said thing from porn? as far as I know porn is generally quite fake but also quite easy to copy. and it seems many many people use porn as a source for both intimacy and new things.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Maybe he used google or youtube. I can get the plans to build a helicopter off youtube you don't think he can learn about the CAT position or something?

[Lynx122]

I think you're jumping to conclusions a bit here.

[exitseven]

Don't jump to conclusions but keep an eye out for other signs

[Asker]

there’s no way i can. we barely see each other during the week. it’s 1pm and he hasn’t answered any of my phone calls.

[ThrillSeeker01]

I wouldn't worry. He may have improvised or heard about it (I'm sorry that I can't get more specific as I do not know what this thing that he did was).

[gorydetails]

you sound pretty dumb if this is your only "evidence" of him cheating.

[Unit1]

That's just ridiculous to conclude he is cheating.