Should I tell my sister her fiancé is cheating and about to leave her?

[Anonymous]

Well he didn’t wanna marry her from the beginning. I’m not close at all with my family due to the extreme toxicity. My sister first relationship lasted almost 18 years and she said the guy wasn’t ready to marry her. The second guy she dated left her while she was pregnant and also found someone else. They had moved in together and he left her in the house by herself. Now she’s dating this other guy who she let buy a house for her and my nephew. this house is bigger than what she can afford as she admit to and she’s an Air Force veteran.

now this guy is cheating on her and I seen them together. My sister always throw in your face how she got 3 degrees, she treated me like crap, and basically watched me have a horrible abusive life. She’s every bit of my abusive manipulating mother. every part of her is extremely toxic. now the guy is about to leave my sister and I don't know if I should tell her. He only came to see our mom one now and never went back to visit the family again.

this house has 8 bedrooms and very big. She’s an Air Force veteran and always brags about how she got 3 degrees and how I’m broke and etc. she always put people down and degrade them.

I seen him with the girl and she thinks he wanna marry her. The previous guys she introduced to the family never returned after their first visit. Now he’s leaving her as well

[Anonymous]

Don't say anything she'll only blame you if her and him break up best to stay out of it

[Asker]

Yeah I was told that as well

[Pterodon]

Yes you should though there’s a chance she won’t believe you

[Bethany22]

Just let him tell her if that's what he says he's going to do. But if the wedding comes, and he still hasn't said anything, then yes, tell her. What is in the marriage for him or for her? It sounds like he already has enough money. Is it to take the house back?

[Asker]

He left her in the house and he never came back. He been gone since yesterday morning.

[foxrider77]

I wouldn’t tell her but maybe you can expose it. “Hey sister who is this guy in the picture, it seems weird that he hangs around x girl. She should know before going further in a relationship. Maybe she’ll respect you for it.

[Nirmroth]

I mean you can to have it off the chest and be the better person. Im honestly suprised you're still in contact with such people.

[Dreamclouds]

It is always nice to be good even when people are bad to you, it gives your soul a certain sense of freedom, don't be frustrated just tell your sister.

[Asker]

I almost did today and while talking to her it brought back the reason why I left her alone. Everything out her mouth is judgmental, negative and nasty. You can’t even talk to her without being blamed. My best friend died in domestic violence and she blamed her for that. Everything in her world is negative and always blaming the person who’s abused.

[Dreamclouds]

If we become the ones who did us wrong wd are nonbetter, I still think you can find thr good in you, I would you don't need to think of how she was in the past think how you want to be, believe me on long term being mad on someone would just absorb the good in you being good is aleays a relief, feels like the true nature of human beings.

[sheikalana]

It's none of your business. Stay out of it.

[noohair]

Hard question, I would stay out of this based on what you have said.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes tell her, show proof though.

[AmeerX]

If you care about her then you should tell her

[LiamJHayden]

Siblings and best friends, yes, tell.

[Kelly6]

Don’t get involved

[JesseJayNeak]

Tell her before she suffers

[jahaims]

Duh.