Should I tell my sister's fiance that she is a criminal?

[emiliad]

My sis has done everything from repeatedly stealing money, to tax fraud, to plagiarising signatures on legal documents, defaulting on debt, cheating on her husband, crashing cars that weren't hers, to sleeping with married men, to dating people who have been to prison. Her ex boyfriends are in the triple digits and some of them got in a lot of trouble over the years because of her. She also slept w my ex husband. Needless to say we don't have a relationship but: She is very manipulative, an insanely good liar and very beautiful. Recently she brought home a "fiancé" who genuinely seems like a sweet guy who is currently very in love with her. I know it sounds terrible but should I tell him she is a very bad candidate for marriage? Is it only a matter of time before she ruins him too? Is it really none of my business? I feel kinda bad for him.

[AlexM007]

Kinda feel we are not getting the full context and both sides to the story, I would advise doing what ever your gut is telling you and do what you feel is for the best. But try and not stress too much and keep happy and positive because when all said and done you can not always be worrying about people or things which are out of your control.

[TheMajesticKing777]

I don't think you should get involved, she will end up locked up or dead at some point anyways

[AlexM007]

Hahaahah kinda hard to "not get involved" isn't it?

[TheMajesticKing777]

Not really, they don't seem to really have any form of connection with each other, either ways getting involved can cause problems, he doesn't believe her and then she gets mad at her sister and causes a whole other shindoo, it's best to let them live how they choose

[AlexM007]

True to an extent but you have to take into consideration what an awkward postion to be in it must be! If they are related you would have to argue there is a "connection".

[TheMajesticKing777]

They seem to be living different lives and don't seem to have contact with each other but I guess I shouldn't give a full answer if I don't know everything, my advice would be to not get involved, they don't seem to have a good relationship anyways

[Avicenna]

If she has done of all that, he should definitely know about it

[emiliad]

Oh that's a short list. If i gave him a full list he probably would not even believe me. She is really bad news. Is it totally out of place for me tell him?

[Avicenna]

Not at all

[Avicenna]

Focus on the criminal activity and the cheating

[Guy13]

You better stay out of it...

[Guy13]

He has a chance to run a background, credit, joint medical etc before engagement. He failed to do his leg work. I would personally be afraid to get involved. That's just me as you are your own decision-maker and know the participants better than I do.

[Drumlin2001]

Leave them to it. Not your business

[Iron_Man]

Let the future husband find out

[Iron_Man]

On his own

[emiliad]

Sure I mean it may ruin him but... it's none of my business?

[Anonymous]

I would say something.

[emiliad]

I definitely want to!