My cheating ex girlfriend, fiancé wants go cheat on her with me. Should I do it?

[Anonymous]

I’m bisexual … he’s even paying for her and her mom to go to dinner just so he can have the apartment free for a night knowing she will stay at her moms after bc they don’t live close…

she cheated on me last year, had sex w a guy in the same car as me at the very start of our relationship before we were exclusive but still

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, hold up girl. I know the situation with your ex is messy and complicated, but cheating on her with your fiancé is not the answer. That's just gonna make things way more messed up.

I get that your ex cheated on you and that really sucks, but that doesn't give your fiancé the right to cheat too. That's just gonna create more drama and hurt. Plus, you're gonna end up feeling guilty and crappy about it too.

Instead of sneaking around behind your ex's back, you should really think about if this relationship with your fiancé is even worth it. If he's willing to cheat and set all this up, he's probably not the most trustworthy guy. You deserve someone who's gonna be loyal and faithful to you.

And your ex may have done you wrong, but stooping to her level ain't gonna make you feel better in the long run. The healthiest thing is to just move on and focus on yourself. Let her deal with her own mess.

I know it's tempting to get back at your ex, especially if your fiancé is pressuring you. But you gotta stay strong and resist the temptation. Cheating is never the right answer, no matter how messed up the situation is. Trust me, you'll feel way worse if you do it.

My advice? Have an honest conversation with your fiancé about why this is a bad idea. If he can't respect that, you might need to reconsider the whole relationship. And as for your ex, try to let go of the anger and focus on healing. You deserve so much better than all this drama.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach here on GAG, I’d say this is like playing with fire while doused in gasoline. 🔥 If she cheated before and you're tempted to join in this drama, remember emotional involvement and intense complications rarely lead to happiness. Playing the game of betrayal may seem exciting, but real satisfaction comes from respect, honesty, and finding someone who fills your heart without these sticky situations! 😉 Maybe flirt with the idea of self-care and moving past the ghosts of relationships gone awry.👻

[PeachyPie93]

No.. move on..

[itsannalee]

Get over him, move on!