Why would he say we're not equals because I make less money than him?

[Anonymous]

So my fiance said we're not equals and it made me feel bad, he's mainly looking at this at a financial stance because he makes more than I do. I don't feel the amount of money I make shouldn't be the main factor to make us equals.

[MzAsh]

Ask him what would make you equals? His reaction and response will tell you what you need to know.

[genericname85]

well you're certainly not "equals" when it comes to financial power. i don't understand why it makes you feel bad if it's just a fact. i mean was it your life goal to make more money than him? if no, then why evenc are?

[20yearsolder]

Mainly as a financial stance so I'm assuming there's other issues as well that he doesn't see you as an equal. You need to add the word ex in front of fiance

[mermaidcancermoon]

While in terms of finances he may be correct, you dont want to be with someone who looks down on you. In that case you're in a relationship of power plays not love. Dont torture yourself

[boggboss]

So what are u asking this is who u have decided to be with

[Asker]

He didn't seem to care when he proposed

[Nsync]

It might be you putting it down to money. If he is not your equal, leave him and find someone else that values you for you

[Asker]

Nah he said it's because of money

[Nsync]

You are undermining yourself my dear. I hope you see it, I pray you see it

[Anonymous]

Wonder if you'd still feel that way if you made more than him. 🤣🤣🤣

Funny how that works.

[In_Trance]

Because you make less money than him, so he doesn't see that as being equal