Is it better to let go your love because you can't afford the relationship for this moment?

[Naamjoon]

[caring__1]

It's our choice to determine the lifestyle we can accept living. If you believe the lifestyle is more important than the connection between people, then keep looking for that provider. You will probably be disappointed in the long run if you or your partner choose to live beyond your means. Will having the latest in technology and a fancy vacation every year be enough to help you feel a special connection with someone? Subtleties can be nurtured for a long time. Extremes just lead to an insatiable desire for more extremes. It's similar to the shopaholic who feels energized by the purchase, but owning it does nothing for them. I've encountered more truly happy people who are middle class rather than upper class, when it comes to financial worth.

[genericname85]

in what sense can you not "afford" the relationship?

[Naamjoon]

I am facing some problems, family problems so i feel i don't deserve his love for this moment of time.

[genericname85]

Well why don't you leave it to him to determine whether or not he wants to love you?

[Wise4myage]

If that's how you feel, than it fine. But it seems rather drastic to me.

[Naamjoon]

Why do you feel like that?

[Wise4myage]

Why can't he support you for a while?