I don’t want to fix my relationship, I have given up but I also don’t want to leave it when the “should we?” comes up, why?

[lilac]

Also I don't know how to fix a relationship. It's like comfort zone

[MrOracle]

At your age, you should have learned this lesson long ago, but since you clearly haven't, I'll explain it.

If you have such a fundamental problem in your life as a broken romantic relationship, you can either fix it on your schedule, when you have the time to deal with all of the things you have to deal with away from significant distractions (i. e., what you're intentionally avoiding doing right now), OR, life will find a way to FORCE you to face that problem at the worst possible time - when you have OTHER really important things going on and you really don't have the time or availability to deal with it. That's how people have mental breakdowns, get fired from jobs, or even become suicidal - because they've pushed things off until it all collapses back upon them all at once.

You are an adult, and you can handle this however you choose, but don't expect life to be so kind. The consequences WILL come, and you WILL have to deal with them, so, really, the decision is: will you handle them on YOUR schedule, or on LIFE's schedule, which is apt to be much more difficult and cruel?

[Finchie40]

Choosing to not fix your relationship and just choosing to stay , makes you a selfish person, because you are being one sided , basically your way or no way , if you want you relationship to get better , you have to communicate with your partner and compromise with them , not make everything about yourself , be honest with them and tell them how you are truly feeling , don’t sugarcoat shit , , life is too short to live with someone you aren t really That happy with. Remember we can’t read each others minds , so it’s best to say what you need to say and be honest. Don’t just sit back and act like your partner is the one that needs to fix the relationship , it needs to go both ways , if you both can’t work it out and fix what is broken you are both best to go your separate ways

[IslaTheWitch]

The given description is not enough to draw any conclusion.

It could be laziness. You are good as it is and you don't want to bother yourself.

It could be a depression when the whole motivation disappear.

It could be lack of deeper emotion between you and your partner and you don't care, choosing more convenient solution...

[Avicenna]

You're wasting your time then. Just end it and move on.

[lightbulb27]

‘Youve always had the power my dear, you just had to learn it’, the wizard of oz.


Your in stucksville… a place of hopeless and loss. How… you work on yourself and make most of. The other party has to be willing. Getting them there is tough… drag their butt out here to start. The issue is… avoidance! The answer… lies deep in childhood resolution and understanding and acceptance of other.



Ugh gag phone app s! cks… erased my prior answer switching apps. Frustrating!

[JacobJordan]

So you don't want to fix it you want to what? Torture the guy? Stay so he can't find happiness? I mean let's be real either you are a cruel and heartless person or you lying about some things. Either way if you don't want to fix it leave

[soe11]

• Depending on person to person.
• Individual choice.
• Personally I don't like binding.
• My current relationship is longest one.

[KrakenAttackin]

You think the "grass is greener" at your age? 😂😂. Roll the dice and take your chances. You will end up with a bunch of guys who just want to use you as a cum dumpster.

[HouseMoat]

Usually fixing a car, takes money. I'm not saying money will exactly save a relationship, but often times the main reason a relationship fails, is BECAUSE of money

[Anonymous]

So you are basically afraid to leave because of how your life will change and too comfortable to leave because it’s what you’re used to even though it’s not working. Eventually you’ll be so miserable you’ll leave though if you can’t fix it

[Crankor]

And why don't you want to leave it? Am I wrong to assume your too comfortable with your living arrangements causing you to be too scared for a change?

[jimmy2]

He how to fix this
Find forgiveness with yourself then tech him how
Then both find forgiveness with. God
It's fix
To secure it forever or at least to death of one
Both go to church

[ThrillSeeker01]

You need to leave or you'll never find true happiness.

[Luckycharms12]

If don't try fix it then you always have question of what if.

[CharmedAngel69]

That is a very destructive place to go.
If you are not willing to work on it, but recognize its a problem..
that is a sign you need to leave

[animesenpai]

Why stay in something worthless

[DreamLife7]

Move on the man doesn't want u