Do I need to leave this relationship?

[Anonymous]

He’s always had some mood swings, as I have too, but when he gets his, he gives me the silent treatment. One time just because we didn’t have sex that day when he wanted to when I just woke up, he didn’t talk to me for almost two hours. Later we talked and basically put the blame on me, saying he got all excited and got let down. Then, I have one of my friends spend the night, used to be the regular before me and him were together. I texted him, letting him know beforehand, and he claimed I made him feel really depressed, and his house feels like a prison. When I picked him up so he can get his PS4, he sulked. Did not say a word to me. Fast forward next day when I picked him up after dropping off my friend, still sulked for a few hours. No words and then all of a sudden in a good mood again. I went to my aunts for “four n a half hours” one day, and he got mad at me for being out that long, not spending time w him. Just yesterday, told him I was going to hang out w my friend. Had to get out because I never get space from him. He wanted me to change my “booty” shorts, which keep in mind is an exaggeration, and I never wear anything remotely showing too much, to pants. So I did so he wouldn’t be mad. But ofcourse more silent treatment for about an hour till I left. Me and my friend ended up watching a movie, took longer than I expected. Come home, he’s laying in bed with his arms crossed, Im apologizing for being out so long, and he starts drinking down beers, about 3, not talking to me. Later, says it looks weird me going out and not spending time w him. Then says im his favorite person and he doesn’t know what he do without me, and basically doesn’t trust me because his mom left him.

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just a few days ago, we got in another argument.
it was because i came home from work, letting him know i picked up another shift and wanted to take a nap. he claimed i didn’t want to talk to him because i wanted a nap. he went to the living room (no furniture yet) and just layed on the floor and an hour later he comes back in the room, “so you’re not gonna talk to me?” and escalated from there. This time as im trying to walk away from him from the bathroom, he blocked me in +++

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and tried not letting me out and yelled in my face. i then pushed him away, and walked out the door and he followed me there. 10+ minutes of back and forth and telling him im not going to talk to him when he’s angry, he finally walks back to the apt, then spams me w text and calls telling me that i make him want to kill himself and i don’t want him and etc.

[ohsheeT]

I think he should probably leave it I think he's probably controlling I think that it's going to get worse through your question it seems like you have a pretty well together and the way you named all the negative things you know what's going on and you know where it's headed so I think you already prepared yourself for the outcome but I think you better just be very careful on how you handle this because it sounds like you can fly off the handle

[Asker]

Thank you, and yeah I’ve been trying to emotionally detach myself from the relationship itself in preparation, I think I’m set on leaving, the only thing I’m worried about is how I’ll do it and if he will go crazy on me.

[Snedger____]

Lol. He's immatured and too much needy. His life revolves mostly around just you, which is not healthy. Make him realise this. Tell him how important it is to respect eachother's private space in a relationship.

Ask him to socialize, get along with friends, travel somewhere, do his own work and be active, instead of being clingy, lazy and boring.

[Asker]

Yeah, the thing is, he hangs with his friends every day that I’m at work. It’s just a problem when I try. It’s always on his time. But Ill try communicating that towards him when I figure out what I’m going to do

[Snedger____]

Yeah. Clearly tell him what you dislike.

[Summeroflove]

He sounds abusive. Can’t communicate. Using you for sex.


You’re asking this question because you probably know you should leave him.

[Danny_dan92]

I’ll make it simple for you.




If you’re unhappy. Leave




You’ll find dick elsewhere

[User3191989]

Yes, ASAP