just maybe one or two months in our relationship, he’s over every night. Pretty much “moved in”z It’s been about 5 months from that point, and I feel like this relationship is very unhealthy. He’s always had some mood swings, as I have too, but when he gets his, he gives me the silent treatment. One time just because we didn’t have sex that day when he wanted to when I just woke up, he didn’t talk to me for almost two hours. Later we talked and basically put the blame on me, saying he got all excited and got let down. Then, I have one of my friends spend the night, used to be the regular before me and him were together. I texted him, letting him know beforehand, and he claimed I made him feel really depressed, and his house feels like a prison. When I picked him up so he can get his PS4, he sulked. Did not say a word to me. Fast forward next day when I picked him up after dropping off my friend, still sulked for a few hours. No words and then all of a sudden in a good mood again. I went to my aunts for “four n a half hours” one day, and he got mad at me for being out that long, not spending time w him. Just yesterday, told him I was going to hang out w my friend. Had to get out because I never get space from him. He wanted me to change my “booty” shorts, which keep in mind is an exaggeration, and I never wear anything remotely showing too much, to pants. So I did so he wouldn’t be mad. But ofcourse more silent treatment for about an hour till I left. Me and my friend ended up watching a movie, took longer than I expected. Come home, he’s laying in bed with his arms crossed, Im apologizing for being out so long, and he starts drinking down beers, about 3, not talking to me. Later, says it looks weird me going out and not spending time w him. Then says im his favorite person and he doesn’t know what he do without me, and basically doesn’t trust me because his mom left him. I hang w my friends once maybe every 2 weeks now bc of him.
Do I need to leave this relationship? Am I the bad guy he’s making me out to be?
