Are you ever sick of women who won't leave an abusive relationship?

[Gloree]

A friend of mine is in an abusive relationship. Before marriage, she had big dreams but now she's a "stay at home" wife. No kids yet. She quit her job because her husband don't want her working. I know him. We were all in the university. He was a snob, which is why I stayed away from them after their wedding.

Upon her invitation, I visited recently. I noticed she was jittery and kept looking at the time. She was the one who invited me but she wanted me gone before 4:00pm when he would return. And she kept making sure the house was neat. I had heard rumors of her situation from mutual friends but confirmed it that day.

When I confronted her she said he don't like visitors around. He would beat her if he finds me there. I should please, leave. I told her to get help but she said, no need. He provides everything and he only beats her when she does something wrong. I had to leave and instead of feeling pity for her, I feel angry and irritated.

Does anyone else feel this way about people who won't leave such relationships?

[TonyV]

Yeah it annoys the crap out of me, there are loads of single men to chose from but for some reason women always put up with abusive men, or tolerate men that cheat on them. My girlfriends sister dates a guy who dosent work, dosent like to drive, can't get along with her 14 year old daughter from her first husband, he's literally threatened to leave her cause he got in an argument with the 14 year old, so what's she do? She got mad at the 14 year old and made her go stay at grandpa's to keep him around. Oh and let's not forget he cheated on her and she took him back.

My cousin put up with an abusive unemployed drunk for years, refused to press charges when people would call the cops for her.

I do not understand women's fascination with shitty, low life men, it's literally raining single men and y'all choose to try and make it work with assholes.

So yeah, I'm tired of hearing about it. 1 if they won't listen to people telling them to leave what else is there to do? Fine stay with the price.
2 it's also a personal insult, y'all really think the these unemployed abusive bums are better than me? It took me this long to find a girl cause most of you are dating human garbage?

So me being 5'9" and a leo is a deal breaker but the dude that beats ypu when he disagrees is OK? Got cha... yeah that makes sense.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Getting beat? That's against the law. Like seriously if a third party made an anonymous phone call, they'd arrest the guy and even if she doesn't want to press charges, the state will... especially if there is evidence.

All of that aside though, she's choosing to be in that situation. It's effed up, but you have to respect her decision. Not saying it's right... I mean I think getting beat and being jittery over a person over at the house is some really bad ju ju.

[desidoll]

Not sick, but I don’t feel sorry for them either. They are adult and capable of making their own choice but chose to make themselves suffer for a douchebag like that. I know some women like her who are submissive to men but act superior to other women. Making me think if they deserve to be treated the way they are.

[Gloree]

Exactly.

[Xtendable]

I’m not sick of them. I feel for them

[Anonymous]

Oh definitely yes