What does my boyfriend of 1 year mean when he says I’m his headache and motivation?

[Anonymous]

[PrettyPriya]

So you have been together for a year and cannot ask him this? Your relationship must be pretty weak that you cannot communicate with each other.

It never ceases to amaze me how many people ask questions like this, expecting us to read someone’s mind that we have never met. Furthermore, you give zero context to the situation. You might want to use the update box and update the question so that users have some clue why he may have said this.

As for why he did? Who knows? What would make you say to someone that they are a headache to you? Does that sound like a good thing? Doesn’t to me at all. That sounds like an insult. Ultimately, none of us can read his mind. You need to ask him what that means and certainly work on your communication with him.

[Blackcupcake]

ask him directly and you’ll get the answer from the source.

[Guy13]

You nag and bitch him to death but are right 50% of the time... cause me a migraine !!! Sooner later headache is going to be larger than the love. We can't take but so much of that !!

[Avicenna]

He's probably talking about the complexities of a relationship rather than you personally

[Anonymous]

You push him to hard but from the sounds of it he seems lazy unmotivated and you have to be a mother to him instead of a girlfriend and that ain't good especially for longterm

[In_Trance]

it means you should ask him for clarification... since, you know, he's your boyfriend

[Dinosaursandanime65]

“She drive me crayzim”