Boyfriend always thinks I'm mad or sad?

[Anonymous]

I don't get it. Haha 🤣 I'm on xbox most of the time laughing with friends sooooo... Yeah. We been together for a year and the past 3 months he's been complaining "you're always sick" because I have really allergies.
"You're always sad or got this cloud over you.".. what?
"You're always mad""You're a wet blanket"He was mad tonight because I was on facebook while we were watching Netflix and said " I don't care if you did it on purpose! Isn't that rude to you? He was pissed I thought to myself... if I didn't do it to make you mad... WHY ARE YOU MAD? He repeats this DAILY. Oh and then when we talk he turns everything into a fight or flips it and says "yeah I know how it feels". Always patronizing me. And making everything about HIM HIM HIM. If I'm quiet he gets pissed which I find hilarious because I've been quiet since I was a baby, since I was a kid. I'm a quiet person. He liked it then.. now he gets pissed. Why is he acting like a emotional little prick? Oh and I HAVE to cook or heat up his food. I HAVE to make his coffee. I think if I say no he will hit me. I HAVE to wake him up for work because he won't wakeup on time. Dude blamed for him being late to work everyday. He stays up every night till 3am and had to work at 8... how stupid is that? Then complains how he can't hear his alarm... he's 42 by the way.

[Hangry22]

You guys don't have any compatibility. I have no idea how you got into this. Breaking up is the best option for both

[Asker]

The problem is not compatibility. What he is... is a narcissist. And a manipulator. He is using me. He is so calculated it is insane and he makes it obvious. Everytime I ask him a question whether it's how he's feeling or something else ha sits there for 3 minutes and says. Trying to figure out what to say... I asked if that makes you mad? He is a master manipulator and he doesn't need to be with anyone. He's been divorced 4 times. All women said he was explosive. I did a background check and spoke to them. They all said he is a psycho. He doesn't even have access to any of his kids.

[Asker]

He was arrested on all 4 wen for abuse. And actually served time. He was on parole when Iet him and didn't tell me until AFTER I moved in

[Dave31989]

they call that "resting bitch face". Just something some people have. nothing you can do about it. all you can do is reassure him that you're not (unless of course, you are)

Then again, when aren't women mad

[Asker]

No he's crazy. He's been in and out of jail for beating women who like to think for themselves. Did a background search.