What do you think of a girl who always gets mad over small things?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend started to ignore every time I get angry. he said that I always get mad over small things and unnecessary things. I feel really sad when he ignores me :(

[caring__1]

We don't have control over our feelings, so telling someone they shouldn't feel something is a waste of time and will generally lead to escalation. On the other hand, we do have control over our actions. Taking out your frustration and disappointment on others will never change the facts that exist and will only lead to destroying any chance for you to have a healthy relationship. You don't like his behavior (ignoring you), yet you seem to feel entitled to maintain your behavior (projecting your anger on him). Double standards will never work. You feel entitled to push discomfort on him, yet you don't want him to push discomfort on you. It's time to learn about cause and effect. If you don't like what you are creating, look for alternative behaviors that will be more functional.

[Hairylegs222]

You already said a keyword, "unnecessary". That's one of those things me and many others don't want to tolerate. Having less self control over your anger is a flaw. I don't find that attractive and it would be super annoying, no offense.

[slatyb]

Like what? Be specific.

[UniquelyBasic]

A headache.

[In_Trance]

Needs more vitamin D

[barn_stormer]

bad personality