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I don’t think my boyfriend is in love or happy with me anymore?

Anonymous
hi ya’ll, my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 years. it’s not always been easy, i’m not the most confident person and i don’t see myself as the greatest person. so the stuff i’m about to tell you might be low class struggles, but to me, for some reason the biggest deal. my boyfriend DMed girls in the past complimenting them on how pretty they are, and liked a bunch of bikini and booty pictures of girls and followed a bunch of them as well. i know this is not a big deal, but for someone who’s not confident, it is a big deal. i hate that he did this and i can’t get it out of my head. it’s been going on from 2015-2019. i asked him why he did it and he said bc he was stupid, young and didn’t know if we would last. in my head if you didn’t think you would last with someone, why not just break up? that’s what frustrated me even more. so all these years all i’ve done is bring it up to him. i always say why did you do it, why didn’t you just break up with me? he would say bc he didn’t want to. it’s always in my head. well all of this week i’ve noticed that we are not the same as usual. he barely touches me, barely kisses me, barely has sex with me, barely calls/texts me and barely hangs out with me. i know those problems are not the biggest deal but it makes me sad. i’m dying to let it go bc he has changed now and wouldn’t do what he did back than now. a big part of me feels bad about doing this to him, but another part of me is really mad at him for doing it. i’ve asked him if he ever physically cheated on me and he said no. i’m sad and I don't know what to do. please be nice when responding lol
I don’t think my boyfriend is in love or happy with me anymore?
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