Side chicks / sneaky link?

[Maybeitsme39]

Guys what’s your views on side chicks do u have one? After how many years of being with the same side chick do u call it something else? Are side chick a must have at some point? What’s the rules for your side chicks/sneaky links? Is it cheating if you see someone out side of your side chick and your partner?

[mobiusforniner]

Yes. Two years. didn't plan on having one. Just sort of happened. The weird thing is, i never really knew what our relationship was, even when it was obvious. Kept living in denial. My wife even knew and spent time with her. The lines got so blurred. She filled all the gaps in my marriage and i felt so happy. But that obviously became a problem.

I dont like calling her a "side chick" because it makes her sound like a piece of meat. She wasn't. I love her very dearly and breaking up with her was the worst separation in my life.

[ArtemisSilver]

I prefer open polyamory. Nothing like having dinner with your wife and your girlfriend.

Eventually I hope to have a girlfriend live in with us, if it were legal I'd marry her too.

Income pooling, shared chores and child care, and a more fulfilling sex life sounds like a good plan to me.

Especially because I have a higher sex drive than my wife. Also I like LTRs and worry free sex way more than sketchy hookups.

[ArtemisSilver]

I should ad that sneaking around is for cowards. I make no apologies for living my life.

[FilmGuy93]

Side chicks are a joke. She became a side chick because she didn't bring me enough peace in life to make her a main chick. She's a side chick because she's replaceable.

[Ironic_Method]

I have a side chick of sorts, but calling her that feels like it's downplaying the relationship. Having another playmate outside of her or my wife would be considered cheating if they didn't know about it.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Having a side chick at all is cheating, and no, I've never done that and never will. I only do monogamy.

[CloudMassacre]

I can’t have side people. I’m a very dedicated and monogamous person, I don’t have the emotional intelligence to juggle multiple people

[Guardian45]

Never had one. No need for one. I just end one and move on to another.