My boyfriend thinks he didn’t cheat. Is he right?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend cheated on me with an old high school mate. He went to school with a girl for one year but admitted a long time ago when I found out he was cheating, they never actually talked during high school. They added each other on social media months ago while we were together and he initiated everything and fell for her. He thinks that since he “met” the girl before me that he didn’t cheat.

[BlueScorpio]

Yea it sounds like he cheated and trying to lie to himself and you about it. I would exist out of the relationship since he can't be faithful.

[Máiiréad]

I don’t care if he met the girl straight out of the birth canal, if he chose to emotionally invest himself romantically while he is currently in a relationship with you, that is cheating. He is gaslighting you instead of owning up to his mistake. Now you need to ask yourself why you are still with him.

[godfatherfan]

If he was sexually or emotionally with her while dating you, he cheated. no grey area, cheated. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Dump him quickly.

[Guy13]

If he’s not cheating he is lying so pick your poison.

[Faith18letsgo]

That’s a fucking lie! If your exclusive and you have sex with someone else your cheating.

[Finchie40]

Of course he thinks he didn’t cheat , cuz he cheated , Kick him to the curb

[Anonymous]

It's not clear from your question what actually happened between them. Did they have sex or something?

[OddBeMe]

Wow that’s a load of bullshit from him. Ross had a better excuse.

[Anonymous]

These lazy dumbfucks aren't even trying to cover up their cheating acts.

[SplatoonFan2]

Yep that cheating.