What is your definition of a loser and/or pathetic lass?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

To me a loser is someone who plays the victim, pulls the poor me card. Someone who complains about their shitty life with no ambition to change their circumstances.


I had an old roommate; he was awful he played the victim smoked weed and drank constantly. Went to work half soaked only to come back and get drunk again. And that was his life. Drink, sleep, drink, work. Covid hit and he was laid off, he looked at his severance as an excuse to sit on his ass instead of finding a new job and when he did finally get another job he got fired a week in for showing up drunk. His family offered him a job and to put him through schooling and he still said no. I don’t know where he is now because I got the fuck out as soon as my health started to deteriorate because of the stress of living with him. I hope he’s in a better headspace and turned his life around but I’m not optimistic.

[Asker]

Hmm you are insensitive. You don't know what's happening in her life he sounds depressed to me.

[Opinion Owner]

Probably very insensitive now that I know him. I knew the dude for years helped him as I could. It’s just how he was. He’s addicted to alcohol and marijuana

[CrazyGirl2]

That’s a great question, but there is absolutely nothing humiliating or personally embarrassing about it, so If you drop the anonymous BS, and ask this again with your username, I’d love to answer it!

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Someone who doesn't take pride in themselves at all, they have no accomplishments personally, they have no goals in life they're working towards. Mediocrity is the goal and not seen as failure.

Irresponsible spending habits (designer clothes but a shitty job and no savings)

Parties with other broke people who have nothing to offer and aren't extremely good friends.

Just to name a few

[Fuentes]

I once was told by a guy on here that he wasn't living off a woman because ge did work around the house? He thinks him doing that is the same as paying the bills and rent. That's a loser of you ask me hahaha.

[watercolor_lions]

Someone who is overly cocky and bullies others. They're trendy, think they're cool. Keep up with the fads. Makes fun of the people that don't fit in.

That is pathetic and a loser to me.

[FilmGuy93]

No goals, lazy, feels entitled to things, time, attention; doesn’t understand the effort required to do the things she asks

[Samarasaid]

People ( men / women ) stringing people along

[aaron210419]

Someone who gives up on herself and plays a victim her whole life. Bad things happen to everyone but at some point she has to take responsibility and pick herself up. As long as she makes an effort to better herself she is not a loser.

[Tina19]

Someone who thinks suicide is the solution of their problem people who don't have good communication skills and lack to see their worth or unaware of their talent

[TroyDT2]

A loser is someone who accepts a sh*t life without trying to improve. A loser is someone who treats others, especially those he considers of a lower station, like garbage.

[Anonymous]

Myself. In terms of attractiveness I’m probably a 2 out of 10. I’m not a stripper or a cam girl or a porn star, so I have no value as a woman. No man’s ever going to want me.

[Asker]

What? Men these days don't want attractive women they want intelligent career-focused women. Attractiveness barely matters.

[24_7_Amazing]

That's how I feel about myself sometimes

[PatriceONeal]

People who refuse to think for themselves and bully others to join them.

[bamesjond0069]

1. Slut, sleeps around, onlyfans girl, anything like that.

2. Fat obese eww

3. Career independent woman.

All are total losers.

[mobiusforniner]

Someone who blames others for their problems and are unwilling to change their circumstances.

[DesiUwU]

literally everyone around me, including myself

[Blacksnake285]

No foolish talk, keep your head up child.

[DesiUwU]

@Blacksnake285 you're a child tooooo!
i'm sorry to disappoint you, but we're all just gonna die. our world is going to shit and we might as well give up now UwU

[Blacksnake285]

I’m 32, this is an old account and when I made this I was about 30. I put the wrong age by mistake. Are you depressed, you shouldn’t talk like that

[DesiUwU]

@Blacksnake285 oh. lol. heh.
i'm very depressed. taking meds 4 it (that are failing me) don't u worry

[Blacksnake285]

Stay consistent, you might not be on the right ones. I tried them when I was 24 but I finally found the right doctor and found the right meds at 31 years old

[DesiUwU]

@Blacksnake285 so recently. thanks 4 the encouragement. i've got my reasons why rn is not the right time to go mentally insane or bother my parents with askin 4 new meds, but thank u for trying to help.

[Googlemyahoo]

Those who try to be like Kardashians. Newsflash you never will be

Social media pics are all selfies, i. e selfish

[Guy13]

Only Fans woman.

[Hermitess]

Disagree. Those women are the exact opposite of losers.

[saucyduck23]

Your exactly right. They're not losers. They're whores. E-Prostitutes who's afraid to date a real man.

[Guy13]

@Hermitess Nasty morals and a slut for money. Maybe your child will be like that too since you think it is good. Your dreams will come to fruition 🎉

[Hermitess]

No, I’m pointing out reality, not my personal opinion. The sad truth is that men worship prostitutes and strippers and porn stars, and they really don’t have any respect for “ordinary women”

[Guy13]

@Hermitess Everyone but you says the same thing. Perhaps you are way off course in your thinking. It is scary that you persist in it.

[sheikalana]

No job and no ambitions in life. Too comfortable with the miserable life they live.

[whiskeyontherocks]

I don’t judge anyone to negatively.
But I do still have a standard of the company I keep.

[jayhams]

Someone always throwing themselves a pity party and not taking responsibility.

[OddBeMe]

People who don’t try. Or afraid to learn new things.


Basically everyone on unemployment.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Anyone that gives up and solely depends on others.

[notwoke]

any woman who is not dedicated to being thin and sexy above all else

[BLP11520]

People who never try to improve themselves, mind, body or on the job.