What would you do if you saw your friend’s spouse on a dating app like Tinder? (Page 2)

[Drumlin2001]

Given I'm in a committed relationship, if I were scrolling through dating site would be hypocritical to judge a friends partner. I'd probably match with them, try talking to them. not to pursue anything, just to offer a sounding board

[Kori1236]

I’d be showing them. Just to give them a heads up, I would have evidence to back it up too. And if that friend confronts them good if they deny then I did all I could.

[A_Bell]

That's an A + B situation and I would C my way out.

Perhaps they have an open marriage. Perhaps he's cheating. It's not my place to fix it.

[Jaximus-Lion]

What am i doing on tinder in the first place 🤣, then we can jump to conclusions

[petitedollbabee]

Screenshot their profile and show my friend that their partner is likely cheating on them. It’s up to my friend how they deal with that information.

[Paul_in_Indy]

I would struggle to not take the chance to hook up with her. …but I would, definitely, not tell him.

[katiesmuff]

I can't think that I would keep that information away from my friend especially if she were a very close friend.

[TrueConfection]

I don't think I make a good friend. I'd keep quiet.

[Anonymous]

I'd swipe right and see what happens.

If she's on Tinder and he knows about it, could be fun.

If the account gets deleted, she knows she was caught.

[LittleSally]

I've learned the hard way not to say anything.

But I still would.

[lightbulb27]

I'd mention it for sure. Be good topic of discussion.

[Rania05]

Takes screenshot, copy the link and tell my friends

[Androm]

i would take a screenshot and send it to his wife

[pewter_moon]

I would tell them. The knowledge then implicates me. I don’t assist cheaters.

[sheikalana]

I feel like that's none of my business. Maybe he knows about it and if you saw her chances are that she's seen you too.

[Sasha0426]

A lot of people won’t but I would. I don’t know why anyone wouldn’t tell their friend their spouse is cheating. What if that was their spouse who was on Tinder? Wouldn’t they want to know?

[james_d0007]

Tell him and share the screenshots. Provided your friend is loyal to her as well. If he is too banging someone outside their relationship then I would not interfere in such instance. Could be deal made between the two!

[crossdressingrihno]

Screen shot
Send
Explain
Tell him not tell anyone how he found out

[Visionary7]

I’d make a fake account and start talking to them on the app, see if they’re active. As there’s a possibility they might just have forgotten to delete their account or something.

[Tracker1958]

Would you want to know if it was your girlfriend doing the same thing?

[Finchie40]

Exactly , I am shocked by everyone saying they would
Keep it to themselves