Is he serious? Do all guys do this?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend calls me terrible names when he is mad, or even slightly agitated. He knows they hurt me and has caused me huge self esteem issues and has lead to me having a lot of insecurities. He calls me "pig" and "fat" and the reasons it hurts so bad is because im not some skinny chick but im not some big girl. I guess im "thick" but more healthy. Im like 5"7 and 170 lbs. So if he thinks im so fat and a pig why would he stay with me? Its ruining my self esteem and causing deeper emotional issues for me. Do all guys say shit thats mean when they are angry?

[MCheetah]

No, all guys don't call 170 cm, 170 pound women "fat" or call them mean names. If ANYONE is affecting your self-esteem and self-worth though, then you need to tell them to f*ck off and block them from your life. I've had countless women do this to me in my 20s for my height and being too short for them, and I still haven't fully recovered from it, after six years of self-improvement.

Tell this guy to eat sh*t and move on.

[slatyb]

No, they don't. I have never. It's not normal. Did you get this from your parents too?

It's abusive. He's out of control. Dump this guy.

[itsalyssaagain]

Don't allow him to speak to you in that way. It's not normal and it's unacceptable. It's also not true he is self projecting his insecurities.

[melanieeeB]

Nooooo way! What an asshole. No men don't do that smh

[melanieeeB]

Like someone already said it's not acceptable, stand your ground and don't allow this to happen, better leave

[NathanDavis]

it's not a "guy thing"

this is something that abusive people do, and they do so against vulnerable people... and this is regardless of their gender

[Asker]

I didn't mean it only possibly being a guy thing i just referred to guys cause im not in a relationship with a chick. A guy is whose doing it to me, so i wondered of other guys do it to their ladies.

[NathanDavis]

people do it... for the same reasons

they're careless and abusive people...

[jayhams]

No not all guys do that lmfao. He is immature and has Hella trauma he doesn't understand.