How can I support a boyfriend who asked for some space when he has troubles at work?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is having a tough time at work. Currently, he took a break from work because it has been really stressful to him and distanced himself from me. He can stay a day without calling me or texting, or replying to my messages. He claims that he loves me but just needs space. Very hard not to take it personally because we have been really close

[sheikalana]

Well, respect his wishes and give him space. This doesn't necessarily mean not talking to each other at all but in this scenario I would advise you to let him take this time for himself. I don't really know what's going on with him but it seems that he has a lot on his mind right now and might be affecting his mental health. Let him be the one approaching you do not force anything. Be supportive. You can text him something sweet and simple once a day like "I hope you're okay. I'm always here if you need me" or just a simple "I miss you" text message. Good luck.

[dustybiker]

He was clear.

Some people need space to heal. Give it to him. You push into that bubble you damage the connection. Give him the space he needs and earn his trust.

[Phoenix98]

Just give him his space and don’t pressure him and when he’s ready to talk or for things to go back to normal he’ll come to you.

[Guy13]

Give him the space without invading it. Look out for the other girl without challenging him.

[Asker]

I don't think looking for someone else is a good idea

[Guy13]

Keep your eyes peeled. I don’t mean go hunting

[WhitneySnow]

You can support him by just respecting his wishes and giving him space like he asked for

[Asker]

For how long

[WhitneySnow]

Until he’s ready to talk. Don’t pressure him.