You met someone perfect for you but they are taken at the moment going through relationship issues. Would you take them away during a low point?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Their relationship is at a low point right now so it’s a perfect opportunity to take them away from their current partner for yourself.

Yes, they are mine now. 😁

No, that is wrong. 😡

[NathanDavis]

I've actually been in a similar situation before...

not that she was "perfect" I do not see people or relationships under this tricky concept but she was sure great, and we could have done great together but, she had recently split with her boyfriend and so she was not looking to get into another any time soon, nor to look for someone either

but we met by chance, and to feel drawn into each other was inevitable and so we did...

we didn't fall for each other immediately, we were not like that either, but we were stupidly intrigued, and interested on one another, and we both knew that there was a definitive potential for something else, we just knew it and could feel it

but we also knew that it was the worst timing, and the worst of the circumstances too, we actually spoke about it because it was so obvious and it took us all that afternoon to come to terms with it, could we try it anyway, should we try it anyway... even if it was too soon, and even if she had not completely came to a closure with that guy, we really wanted to dare and give it a try (we were only 20's both) but we also came to a point in which we said, nah... it would not be right to mess with

we even kind of seriously joked after that decision "what if no relationship, just give in, into the moment... and that attraction that's obviously there" and I have to say that was a very tempting consideration but neither of us was into that either... so we still said nope, to that...

[Anonymous]

B. Id keep her around as a friend for the time being.

[trina_x]

okay so like I've accidentally done this 3 times, i just try to be nice and supportive and they fall for me and then i date them. Except for the last guy who i had like genuinely loved for ages and then everything fell apart.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Did you feel bad

[trina_x]

i dunno not really cause like it was what they wanted

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

What about for the girl? Didn’t you feel bad for her?

[trina_x]

not really, their exes wernet great - besides the last guy i hate him for leaving her ITS SUCH A MESSY SITUATION