My girlfriend dreamt about cheating on me. Is this a sign that she's dissatisfied?

[Anonymous]

She told me she stopped the dream in her brain while asleep because she hated the idea if cheating. Is this a sign that she's dissatisfied? Girls is this normal for you lot? I know dreams are irrational to certain extent

[Finchie40]

Dreams mainly come From subconscious memories and feelings , a fear, , an insecurity , , lack of trust , lack of respect , doubts , sadness, being unfulfilled, anger , resentment , assumptions or they can come from positive feelings of happiness , peacefulness. , feeling safe , feeling secure etc. Our brains absorb so much that we sometimes don’t realize how much we take in. I know research shows dreams have a meaning behind them but all in all it’s just a dream , some are so intense that when we wake up we feel it’s a message or that it really happened making us question ourselves. So her dream about cheating on you can stem down from her own insecurities on whether she can stay faithful and committed to someone , resisting temptation is a natural trait we obtain when we first fall in love with someone and tell ourselves we are going to love and cherish this person the same way we want them to love and cherish us , but if that partner betrays that commitment and trust after we gave them our heart then resisting temptation for someone becomes harder because we have doubts that someone is actually going to stay faithful to us and cheat on us , so many people have a hard time trusting if they have been betrayed before so are own fears and insecurities make us doubt if our partner is going to stay faithful to us or not , or if we can actually stay faithful to our partner , So if this is a consistent dream she is having it could raise some questions of concern that she is having a hard time resisting temptation. Just think if she was dreaming about you cheating on her and she wakes up and is angry at you that’s her subconscious feeling telling her that she is having trouble trusting in you and that you will eventually betray her. Her subconscious feelings are questioning herself and you. So my advice to you is talk to her and see if she was betrayed before , usually someone that has been betrayed before has a hard time trusting someone else, They are faced with doubts if they should be faithful or not , why I say resisting temptation is something we have to learn if we have Ben betrayed before , Put yourself in a room with a banging ass hot girl that wants you badly that you have the hots for , she wants to fuck your brains out and it will be you and hers secret and nobody will find out, Are you going to stay faithful to your girlfriend and deny that girl? Or are you going to fuck her knowing you can get away with it? The right answer would be to deny her because you love your girlfriend but put your girlfriend in that situation, Is she going to resist that temptation for you, knowing she can get away with it?

[Guy13]

Perhaps she is simply concerned about someone in her life doing it and she overthought it until she dreamed about it. Don't make something out of nothing OR she will interpret it as sharing and you not trusting her. She will know and feel it... and if she does "you don't trust me" might lead to break-up or cheating. Certainly, she will feel like she can never reveal her deep Self to you.

[Asker]

Thank you so much! Very rational and helpful advice

[Guy13]

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[Asker]

You are very wise thank you so much man

[sunflower00]

Dreams can mean a lot of things. I wouldn’t worry honestly unless you have other reasons to be suspicious! Dreams often show our subconscious fears and insecurities. I don’t think I’ve ever dreamt that I cheated on my boyfriend, but I’ve had lots of strange dreams for example that I was pregnant and had a child which is not something I want, my boyfriend cheating on me or being horrible to me when he is not at all in real life, and so on. Dreams can be completely unwanted! It’s probably a good sign she told you to be honest, that kind of shows she has nothing to hide, trusts you or feels comfortable enough to let you know!

[Asker]

Thank you

[BlueScorpio]

It could mean many things, it could mean there's something thats missing or not being fulfilled in the relationship or she could have insecurity about the relationship. It really depends, a dream can definitely have a deeper meaning or it could just be your brain processing what you've, seen, or heard or felt throughout the day. I know I've had a few dreams were I was like... eh ew why? Lol

[SteveSmith1985]

No. It doesn't mean a damn thing. She should just have kept it to herself specifically to keep you from worrying in exactly the way you're worrying now.

This dream is not uncommon. It means nothing. Just most people are more socially intelligent than your girlfriend (evidently), and understand that mentioning it would be unnecessarily hurtful and stressful to their partner. (when it means NOTHING it's just a freaking dream) So they just don't mention it.

Try not to worry about this. It's nothing.

[Asker]

Thank you! Very helpful man

[SteveSmith1985]

No problem. I... know I'm right about my advice on this one. 🙂

[Asker]

For sure man!

[AviatorTom]

If she was dreaming about her fantasy guy, that's perfectly normal, and you have nothing to worry about. I've never known anyone who stops their dream, but that's probably a good sign that she doesn't want to cheat on you and that she's satisfied with your relationship.

[Blackmoonsns]

Sounds like more one of her own insecurities you might have a really great relationship and she's very happy with it but is worried that cheating might be involved possibly because she was cheated on previously in a former relationship. She needs to be comforted and shown through a emotional action that whatever happened or in the past you're not that person.

[Asker]

Thank you!

[dustybiker]

No.

Dreams come from a mind that does not sleep.

Last night I had a dream I had an abortion, then it was a miscarriage, then Dr Drew was my doctor.

I haven’t thought of Dr Drew much since watching his first show Loveline in my teens. The dream doesn’t mean I would ever have an abortion or miscarriage either. They are simply meandering thoughts of a waking mind as I slept.

[Marklaw12]

It could mean, she's faithful and refuses to give in to those thoughts.

She trusts you enough to tell you about her dream. That shows respect.

Her dream could actually be about you indirectly.


What I will advise is try to satisfy her even more. Try other positions and make her feel much more valuable.

[Labokachulaa]

Dreams can literally mean anything as everyone has suggested, there's a website that can give you some clarification about dreams. You just have to do a quick Google search. That's helped me a lot.

[David_Kek]

Id say it'd more reflect her feeling guilty about lying to you about something and not wanting to. Could be wrong, but it might be worth asking her about that to see if it makes sense.

[msc545]

No it's a sign that she had a dream and that's all it is. Most people dream almost every night although they may not remember it.

[Anonymous]

No, women dream of all manner of things just like men and just like men, a lot of times they're primal and meaningless

[melanieeeB]

No, it could also just be a subconscious fear

[Asker]

Thank you!

[Anonymous]

I don’t give much credit about dreams because dreams are weird

[CA4444]

I wouldn’t worry too much honestly

[Anonymous]

So you're with a whore. Get rid of her. She'll go chasing dick behind your back then later admit she had some guy/s plow her pussy up

[Opinion Owner]

If she dreamed that it means SHE cheated on her ex and she's still feeling guilty about it

[Anonymous]

She most likely is cheating on you already. For the very least emotionally.

[trina_x]

i have

never done it before

[Anonymous]

Well do you have kids together?

[Asker]

No, but she wants to one day

[grierwrange]

Dude stop asking this

[Asker]

I asked once lol

[Manuel2]

The question who with and can you watch

[Hotboy_booblover]

Yes there is no smoke without fire. Lol