When dumper tells you to find soneone else while dumping you?

[Anonymous]

So I guess they’re really done with me and won't come back later? Do those that come back tend not to tell the dumpees to move on at the time of the break up? Do dumpers truly move on when they claim that they have? Or are they just saying that so that the dumpees would leave them alone?

[Shamalien]

Hate this…as if I can think about finding someone else right now

[Asker]

Why would in general dumper say that? Like they really don’t want me back at all latet?

[Asker]

Later*

[Shamalien]

Yeah I don't know. Mine said that but I told her there was no chance of us getting back together if she broke up with me. I meant it…. but I cannot believe she actually pulled the trigger because she seemed hurt by the whole thing. Confused the shit outta me. Kept telling me she loved me and she had never told me this before. It ruined it. It worse than ruined it.

[Asker]

Why did she dump me?

[Asker]

Sorry dumped you * xD

[Shamalien]

It’s so fking complicated…she told me it was just too much drama too early and it’s cause her parents meddled and she basically had an episode