If my girlfriend follows male celebrities on instagram, is it okay for me to follow hot looking girls?

[Snedger____]

I mean nobody’s following celebrities to get their new movie updates. It’s to see their pics. So is it wrong for me to follow not so popular girls on Instagram to see their pics?

[shanshu]

It's not the same, celebs are how we want to see them and how we have seen them on TV, we follow them as we know them by TV and music culture.

By what I can gather you want to follow women who pose for the camera on a sexy way but have no other famous recognition.

I'd say it's ok to follow celebs as you can get away with it if she sees your Instagram but if she sees you following random girls doing sexy poses she's gonna be pissed.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I think you should think about it being a waste of time. I mean, you see your girlfriend doing it and you see it's just ridiculous right? Don't just use it as an excuse to be just as ridiculous.

[Snedger____]

Umm actually I find it hot. That’s why it worries me lol

[D_Bone_Steak]

What exactly do you mean... hot as in your girl looking at dudes or you looking at chicks?

[Snedger____]

Sorry buddy, I replied in a wrong comment

[kylee2437]

Why even bother being with her if you think this dynamic is equal? She is following male celebs that she most likely doesn’t have a chance with while you are following these hot women in hopes that maybe you will have a chance with them one day especially because they are normal everyday women.

[Snedger____]

What is they are an upcoming instagram model and me doing nothing more than liking her pics? Like with around 5k followers?

[kylee2437]

You are a cheater trying to justify your cheating ways by saying she follows men she will never talk to in her life. Figure it out and go be single. Stop dragging a good woman into your non committable ways

[Snedger____]

Lol. I’m loyal and don’t the follow any single women except my friends. But she follows lot of celebrities. And my question refers to public account girls with 5k-10k followers.

[kylee2437]

No you are trying to justify cheating / infidelity which starts with thinking girls with 5k-10k followers aren’t just regular people in the end. I have 2000 followers on insta and live a normal life.

[Snedger____]

Comeon lol. You speak like you know me from childhood

[kylee2437]

No , I’ve just dealt with men like you and you aren’t that hard to figure out. Your girlfriend isn’t over here masturbating to these male celebs.

[Snedger____]

You got that right. Men masturbate to hot girls

[kylee2437]

So point being there’s porn sites for that and you are resorting to women you can then interact with on Instagram for that, so you are setting yourself up to cheat. So yes you are a cheater and you need to consider if messing with a good woman’s head is something you want to do. You are insinuating she’s a potential cheater because she follows male celebs and that disturbing to say the least

[AviatorTom]

Most people would say that there's nothing wrong with looking... so long as it doesn't lead to something more than looking

[Summeroflove]

If you feel she’s emotionally cheating no. But my gosh. I think it’s fine to follow people.

[HighValue]

Generally, most people with social media are cheaters. They often post provocative/revealing pictures/videos themselves for attention/likes/comments from others and they almost always add people that they don't know IRL/in person because they are always looking to find someone else.

The majority of people are cheaters (at the very least emotional cheaters) and it is so common that many of them don't even see anything wrong with it because they are so immoral.

Couples should realistically only have a joint social media account and decide together what is and is not acceptable behavior on there.

[Sasha0426]

Oh, good grief 🤦‍♀️ This is some high school bullshit! If you’re that fucking jealous of male celebrities, grow the fuck up! Literally everyone follows celebrities on every social media. Are you even mature enough to be in a relationship?

[Snedger____]

Lol you think following random celebrity assholes are matured behaviour?

[Sasha0426]

You want to follow these girls out of pettiness. You want to make your girlfriend feel bad for who she follows on Instagram. Like, why?

[Snedger____]

No.. I just thought about it and asked this here. I’m not following any random girls or gonna ask her about it

[Sasha0426]

Then why is this a problem for you? What is the issue here?

[Anemone978]

My opinion yes its wrong. If you followed hot celebs fair enough... Celebs ain't going for no normal person its totally different. InstaSluts might actually find interest in you and hoe about with you.

[kylee2437]

Make excuses for his cheating ways. Any guy that justifys following instasluts while having a girlfriend is just a straight up cheater

[Snedger____]

@kylee2437 @Anemon I didn’t mean Insta sluts lol. Just random beautiful girls with around 5k followers maybe. Whatever considering there won’t be any chance for texting or meeting that person, would it be wrong?

[Anemone978]

I don't know I still would find it annoying lol... Something about it is just off putting and I wouldn't want my boyfriend to do it.

[Snedger____]

Lol I know.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

You just gotta be able to have a whole ass conversation about whatever current thing people are talking about them over when your girl goes "why do you follow her?"

😂

[Philyouup]

i say no issues. but if you or your girl have some maturity issues or some jealousy issue, then maybe the whole relationship needs review

[Snedger____]

Yeah tbh I think we both are not matured

[Philyouup]

and that is insightful. good luck my friend

[Snedger____]

Thank you man

[Twalli]

She may have an issue with it, because celebrities are the people who you can pike from afar and never meet, age less famous people are probably those you could meet.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I guess so

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Geez why is that even considered a problem... follow whoever you you want

[LiamJHayden]

Sounds like unnecessary drama.

[Snedger____]

You’re right

[Anonymous]

That's totally fine in my opinion.

[Tracker1958]

Yes , dump her.

[In_Trance]

Sure