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Depends, is he cheating or jacking off? If you have a problem with him getting off to other women.
Try to remember "Every man you've ever met thought about having sex with you."
Basically, I'd just ask what his intention is, but I don't have any real experience with men, only women.
One thing is true independent of gender: Once a cheater; always a cheater. if you catch them, then don't try to patch things up, it's over, and that person no longer cares enough to go to you when they want some, not because anything has changed, but some people just aren't mentally wired for one on one relationship commitment..
You shouldn't even talk about it if you get proof, but don't talk about it unless you have proof... That's quite the pickle. :3
Raise up the drawbridge, and lower the portcullis, and do a 180 south, if he says he ain't fapping to other girls.
i've kinda been in the same situation with my current boyfriend but few things to consider:
- you've only been on a few dates, don't consider you guys committed and that all his options are closed just because he's met you and it's the same for you^^
- are they models/verified people or actually people he may have encountered?
- but i wouldn't worry much and i wouldn't suggest asking him as it shows that you've been through his followers,, maybe mention about the topic have him open up and tell you
I don’t think so. He most likely followed these people before you two met and while he was single. Honestly, a lot of single guys do that. Some guys in relationships even do that. But if you two get more serious or already kind of are and it bothers you a lot just tell him you wouldn’t appreciate him following those people. I’d also do this right before getting in a relationship or right when you do just in case his response is “I’m not unfollowing them” you can leave and didn’t waste so much time.
I asked a question similar to this before!! Is it like Instagram model girls? If so I wouldn’t worry, it’s not like he’s gonna meet them ya know? Every guy likes hot girls it’s normal ya know? I as well follow many hot ig boy models. I don’t think it’s that serious ya know? It depends on the guy.
Yeah I don’t take men like that seriously. To me they have a wondering eye even if they are just “Instagram models” lol
Most likely he is maintaining a group of potential next-girlfriends. The odds that you will settle & marry each other are Very low, and he realizes that. So, rather than start from scratch when you most-likely eventually break up, he has some girls lined-up to say hello to. I can tell you from experience that when a man meets a woman and legitimately falls in love with her on the level of marriage... He will most likely (not always) take steps to distance himself from those other women. Why? Because he's in love and doesn't want to jeopardize the relationship. I do understand that you would prefer that he feel this way for you now, but you certainly can't dictate or control someone else's feelings.
I’ll say it plainly. Ask him. Be honest. He may be playing you, he may not. It might be a case that he has a lot of female friends. This happened to me in high school because the guysawere afraid of me due to my stature, so I had a lot more girl friends than guys. Don’t assume anything, and don’t worry too much because you’ll get paranoid and make a final judgement before you ask him. Also, to all of the guys who are just saying’he is playing you’ you are never going to sleep woth this woman, and I know that’s what you want to become of your answer. So shut up.
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It may just mean that he finds them attractive, but all men like attractive women, so I don't find that a big deal. How the dates went is of much greater significance.
Would you feel better if he followed ugly girls? or guys?
Nah. I imagine he, like most people, likes to look at things on Instagram that bring him pleasure and make him happy. And if you, too, bring him pleasure and make him happy, you can be sure you compare with the girls on Instagram. Moreover, he is DATING you and only looking at these girls online, so you clearly won, here.
Unless you see any red flags for cheating, I'd just take it as a bit of knowledge of his tastes and interests.
If you suspect he might be planning on cheating, do what you gotta do to keep yourself happy, you come first.
Every man's dream is to have a hot chick. The fact he follows them on Instagram didn't mean new can afford any (not talking about money here) he is likely fantasizing, and he grown with porn since his 14s. Most man gets average and ugly girls anyways, some because no choice some because they believe they are better than hotties that have so much attention they don't give a f about any man until they are 30 and become "ugly". I think you have nothing to worry about unless he is really handsome and smart chick magnet. Let him live in the fantasy, just suck his cock regularly and he is yours forever
Most of the accounts I follow on Instagram are hot girls. They're just pleasing to look at. That doesn't mean I would be less loyal, that doesn't make me a cheater, I don't masturbate to them.
If you haven't even been dating long enough for him to give you his Instagram account than you shouldn't worry about it. After you have been dating for a while and if it still bothers you than talk to him about it. But don't just assume that because he follows hot girls that makes him less loyal and less worthy of your time.
If you're looking for a reason to not trust him than maybe he's not the one for you. You should think about all the positive things that you have to offer and worry less about girls on the internet. He is going out with you for a reason. It's probably a good reason
I guess following is fine.
Unnecessary and maybe shallow but not a red flag.
I mean he probably has been following them before he met you.
So I'd say don't jump to conclusions.
Also it depends on how long you two have been together...
If it's only 2-3 months then I think you should give him more time and see if he is actually serious about you.
And maybe one day you can ask him about it and see his response.
If he doesn't think it's a big deal and has no problem unfollowing them or stays calm... I think it's fine.
If he overreacts, end it.
I would definitely take a step back and look at the bigger picture. You know a player by now. Of he is good, of course you guys really hot it off.
Your really into him after a handful of dates. Maybe don't let him get in so fast. Untill you can figure out if he is like "that" as in knows how to get girls to feel real close with him with all his "friends" on Instagram. Or maybe he just sends friend requests to all the hot females he finds that live in the city. Just my 2C's... You might want to be a little more cautious with handing your heart over to someone so fast and easy.
I hate to see anyone get there heart ripped out.
Funny thing, my Instagram follows are mostly hot girls. I barely use Instagram, so my follow list is mostly built from people who have said "hey, check out my IG." Turns out that's mostly aspiring models. Since they bring this up in person (at bars, etc.) they are indeed mostly local to me.
Another very likely source is Tinder. Half the profiles there just say "I don't really use Tinder, check me out on Instagram." If, before you got together, he was following those directions... yep, bunch of local hot girls.
Bottom line tho, just ask him.
since you've only been on a handful of dates he probs doesn't feel like he's committed to you but it's best to avoid guys who do stuff like that before u catch feelings because they usually end up talking to/seeing multiple girls at the same time anyway
There’s a difference between having a couple of highly attractive people on your following list but if their list contains nothing but highly attractive people aside from friends and family then yeah... I’m not sure how long I’d last.. and they live in the same city?
At the end of the day I guess it depends on your self esteem and trust in this guy but that’s a red flag for me
If it bothers you, then maybe he's not the guy for you?
Being cheated on sucks. But just because he likes some instagram models page doesn't mean he's cheating. But at the same time, you have to make the decisions that are best for you.
If it really bugs you, then absolutely it must be a dealbreaker for you then.
Following hot girls who show off their bodies means he has an appreciation for the opposite sex. Most guys will look if you let us. What can I say we are visual creatures! But if he knows the women and it's not work related, I would just ask him point blank about it before you get too deep into the relationship. There is nothing wrong with having a conversation and if there is, that is a Red Flag which is okay to walk away from.
Maybe it's from the past. My best mate follows a ton of hot chicks but that's from when he started his Instagram and his reply to why he still follows them is that it would be too much work to unfollow all of them.
I don't know if you should ask him about it, it would be kinda stalkerish..
Eh as a guy I've done the same. It usually doesn't mean much or anything but sometimes it can. It can mean he might be unloyal due to looking at or thinking about others. It may also mean he doesn't value relationships very much most times and just likes to mess around
if he knows some of those girls and he talks to them. I see on tinder most girls have their Instagram linked to their tinder maybe he finds those girls Instagram profiles on there. you don't feel comfortable with him following those girls, you should really talk to him about it. that is a red flag. he sounds to me like a fuckboy or a asshole player. that is what I think about him. I could be wrong.
if he was following just rando cute girls i'd say could be he just likes looking at hot girls but since they're in your city thats a bit shady.
If he followed them before you were together i mean i wouldn't worry too much. But thats what a lot of guys use Instagram for unfortunately. (Personally I'd rather them just look at porn)
Huge red flag
Men like this think they’re Hugh Hefner and tend to have delusions.
What’s more embarrassing is that he’s public about all of it meaning all of your friends and family and his friends and family can see all of it
If you are sick of getting played by guys, you should really avoid this guy then. He is going to dump you or cheat on you pretty fast.
It shows he might be shallow if he’s following them for their looks and not because he knows them and cares about their life.
I just looked at my ex's Instagram follows, holy shit like every other person is a "hot girl."
Honestly though, I think guys like to fill up their feed with attractive women, doesn't mean they're messaging all of them.
But if the girls live local, yeah I'd be suspicious and if it were me, I'd call him out on it.
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