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Is it a red flag if the guy I'm dating only follows hot girls on Instagram? (Page 2)
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Oh come on!!! Do you also get annoyed of a guy likes looking at hot girls in porn?
He's a man. Let him be. And don't make him stop. It's just visual stimulation for heaven's sake. Get over your own insecurities. You think he's going to leave you for a bloody poster or picture? Don't you think what you have is worth a little more than eye candy?
He can do whatever he wants. That's not my concern. My concern is trying to find a nice guy that wants a relationship with me, and after looking at this dude's profile, he may not be the one for me.
His profile has nothing to do with whether he wants a relationship with you. It's his alone time with his sexuality.
Your insecurities are triggering here, and you might be losing a perfectly good man over them.
I myself had a wife for eight years. Loved her. Never cheated. Looking at pics on Instagram was just my private little moment with me. I needed that to be there faithful and with her the test of the time. (It ended because -she- cheated by the way.)
You are letting your insecurities get the best of you here, I feel.
Incidentally, the women I looked at were to me not more desirable than her. She was the most attractive woman in the world for me. But hey, a man deserves a little escape and private space for himself. It's just like fantasies. I can't fantasise because I have no visual memory, I can't visualise in my head. So I have to see something to get turned on.
I’m super late here and you may not even see it. But would it have helped if your wife sent you sexy photos for you to look at? Like would that have been able to replace the Instagram models?
Yeah huge red flag in my opinion. Social networking sites give lots of opportunity for cheating.
Seems like he might be a bit superficial which I don't feel makes for good relationship material
Why do you say that?
Because there are other things to follow on Instagram besides hot girls
Well, try not to be jealous about it, but at the same time put your cards on the table in a nice way that you aren't gonna be played. I like when people are straight uio with me. Could be friends, could be that he's a player. Find out before you are committed
Yeah, it is a red flag. Even if he hasn't cheated on you with them (at least in the physical sense), following hot girls while dating someone certain means he has a wandering eye. I'd be very careful with this guy.
Lol id becareful with this guy. Chris lol. Hilarious. I love how seriously you take these comments.
I agree with this dude.
Me too. But i also appreciate the tone he talks in. I just his voice to be very funny when he gives this advice. Lol. But yeah he is right. I agree too.
@dandiecandie There's a time for being serious, and there's a time to have fun. Then there's the time to make them guess which it is!!!
:) :)
Lol i got you bro.
Well this guy who follows hot women on Instagram does he have sexual fantasy's about them or is he like me and just likes looking at the pictures and captions. Look at some of these women comments and see if you can find any he wrote. That might tell you what kind of guy he really is.
There is nothing wrong with people looking and finding other people attractive. If your partner tells you he's not attracted to anyone else its a lie. Attraction is just something we can't control however our actions are what matters.
Has he been adding them after you met or was this one of his methods of meeting someone in the first place? Also, if you have not discussed being in a committed relationship, it is often folly to assume that you are exclusive.
No, every guy likes to look at hot girls, if he openly follows them on instagram it just means he doesn't hide it. Or he doesn't expect to be investigated online like that.
Also following someone is not like hooking up.
Goto a mechanic shop. Or a bar or anything where guys gather. I can assure you there will be a hot girl poster/calendar somewhere.
Stop trying to find reasons to bitch.
I would be concerned unless he's a fashion photographer and they are models.
It's a red flag in my opinion.
Well, I don't know of any girls that aren't following a few guys they're attracted to. So no, following women on Facebook regardless of where they live is not a red flag. Plus, if the girls are in the area, that could mean he just saw them around.
Who doesn't like to look at pretty people? I would follow hot girls too if I were active on IG. It's a red flag if he starts to vocally comparing you to them.
It doesn't necessarily mean you're being "played". Imjsut take it a lot of guys in our society do this kind of thing, and others simply disqualify it as normal behaviour.
As to your context, you only said dating. A guy isn't going to fully commit unless it goes beyond that (not that I think this is acceptable behaviour...).
Unlike girls, guys are very visual so sometimes its just fun to look at hot pics of hot women it means nothing at all, not even the slightest bit of emotions exist when we do this... women on the other hand attach themselves emotionally to the celeb they like, so if he's a guy no worries but if you're into girls.. i suggest not going on any dates with her if thats how she acts.
you should be while i dont think people should judge people they do and stereotypes exist for a reason chances are good that he's just another dude looking to get laid till he finds something else interesting but he could be genuine as well but chances are slim your best bet would be to stick with it and pay attention the the things he does and says what he says and the way he moves will tell you everything you need to know even if it does not come out of his mouth his body will betray him
If it's only hot girls... I would definitely question... But if it's hot girls, along with others such as food blogs, or athletes, ... then I don't think it's that much of an issue
Should he be concerned that the girl he's dating is online stalking him lol... and making assumptions based on the girls he follows lol
brah... insta is all about hotties.. why not lol
Ok, let's be real. Almost everyone internet stalks. And someone's Instagram/Facebook can reveal A LOT about a person.
Ok lets be real too then
These insta girls have tons and tons of likes and followers
Tons of people follow them - thats what its for
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Glad we are finally being real now lol
He may follow hot girls on Instagram but he might not actually know them in person. I wouldn't get highly strung about it yet but it could be a red flag because you now know he's looking at others.
Weird, if the girls he follows are the type that posts almost nude pics and "oooh I'm so hot" shit them maybe question it?
Though make sure to know if he is even active at all. If I log into my Instagram who knows who I follow. I haven't logged into it for YEARS. And I've changed life direction and goals twice at least since then.