Is it a red flag if the guy I'm dating only follows hot girls on Instagram? (Page 2)

Question

I recently met a guy and we really hit it off. We've been on a handful of dates so far.  I managed to find his Instagram profile and he mostly only follows hot girls, a lot of them that live in our city.  Should I be concerned? I'm sick of getting played by guys.

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

I would be more worried if he followed lame Instagram comedians. I would give him the benefit of the doubt. Everyone likes hot people.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Nope not really i have instgram account where i only fallow hot girls but i would never lie or cheat on my girlfriend if i had one

1nittol3arn · Answer

It's not a red flag. A wise girl told me something once... You can build your appetite elsewhere but you got to eat at home. 😂

loveslongnails · Answer

Like the guy said below... who else should he follow? LOL Are you both dating other people? If you're not exclusive then what's the problem? Anything can happen... keep your eyes open and don't give your heart away.

Jace26 · Answer

I'd say innocent till proven guilty. However I'd be concerned. It's still early days yet so he may just be seeing how he feels before unfollowing them

askmegirlagain · Answer

If it's models and actresses, it's fine. But if he is specifically into local girls than its a big flag.

Hopefullness · Answer

Honestly, every case is different, but you should see if he stops after a few more dates

Ghost_Woof · Answer

a lot of guys are sex addicts and they like looking at hot young women. Since the term dirty old man. It never really goes away.

JustSomeDanishGuy · Answer

No, but the local "hot girls" could become a concern after a 4+ months -> when your relationship is getting more serious.

Roseyred96 · Answer

Yeessss a guy I dated did this and he cheated on me. Now I'm now saying every guy that follows hot girls on instagram is gonna do this but this is my experience

TXKen · Answer

Definitely not a good sign. Probably pathetic or a player. Either way be prepared to run.

yucel_eden · Answer

Do you want a playboy? If yes it’s not a red flag just a follow.

Do you want a stable relationship with a future that maybe is a good father or husband? If yes to this then it’s a red flag look elsewhere

slatyb · Answer

I didn't think there was any other reason to be on Instagram.

shaman2 · Answer

It's a red flag that he likes hot girls. Not much else.

Death-of-rats · Answer

single guy likes hot girls... are you really that surprised?

azzntittiz · Answer

Men are always lusting, sometimes after the homeless woman, what you gonna do?

spartan55 · Answer

It's a red flag that you put any importance at all about relationships on social media.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Possible red flag since he is only following hot girls. If he was following a variety of people then I'd just say it is normal.

Lovemycountryboy7778 · Answer

Yes extremely a red flag that means who knows what he is doing with those ladies

axelscratch · Answer

Ask him about it, or see his messages on Instagram. It might help to find clarity in this situation.

BlueLights · Answer

Run away. It shows he is a superficial guy. One day he may ask you to look like them.

purplesparkle · Answer

If this is "normal" for guys, I hate normal guys...

AMEL2332 · Answer

its a red flag he uses instagram its all about posting pics and following dumbasses

Nahid1234 · Answer

Why do girls follow models and fitness girls? Afterwards feel bad for their own bodies.
It is just an app where you can talk to your partner about. That is where most are going wrong by not talking through and explaining to one another.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

Of course not. The real issue you should concern yourself with is how does he treat you.

Prime_Sol · Answer

Whats a red flag is you creeped is Instagram and he didn't give it to you. Steps of a psycho

Tnek007 · Answer

I understand that concern but most guys do that just to look at. Now if he's messaging them, that is a different story

AthleticMom · Answer

they ALL follow such gals... the whole of their lives!

Meninist · Answer

Who do you follow on Instagram? No attractive males?

BlueDream · Answer

He may be shallow. If that throws you off, then yes, red flag!

Harsh_5299 · Answer

So either you mean you're hot and he's a player Or you're not and he just has too high standards? Which one is it?

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

Guys are allowed to look at what they want to, in person or online, just like you are. If you are too insecure about something that banal, that's not his fault. Sorry. You don't own him, or his eyesight.

HappyWheels · Answer

Guys like eye candy. Girls like that eye candy. What can you do?

Dtegesd123 · Answer

I'd say look at his dms. He is probably trying to date one of these girls.

Frepklep · Answer

i would say having instagram is already an red flag

stifler1979 · Answer

It's not a red flag - it's just his wank bank / porn collection.

datgirl · Answer

That would be a red flag for me and I'd cut him off.

oddwaffle · Answer

Would you prefer him to follow ugly girls? At least he got the taste.

Anonymous · Answer

To me it is. Not that it’s always this way but most guys I’ve met who only follow sexy pics and/or nude ones end up being douche bags.

clampfan101 · Answer

If you just met, he probably started following them before your relationship began.

jimyee · Answer

It's probably a lot better than if he was following a bunch of hot beefcakes!😉

RingOfFire · Answer

Old question but I'd say yes. At your age, if a guy is still checking out hot women online even after you have been dating it's a red flag.

fay23 · Answer

Only hot girls? Hmm I don't want to jump to conclusions but I think that weird especially since they live in the same city

Dzokson00 · Answer

we like looking at hot girls it gives us oxitocin maybe you are really hot too and he likes you hot girls on insta shouldn't be a problem

bluesky777 · Answer

If you want a serious relationship, it's a red flag. He's not going to be focusing on you. If you're looking for a serious relationship, then it's a red flag. He won't focus on you.

evank · Answer

i would be.  i mean... hot chicks is not an "interest." Is he into yoga, makeup, etc or is he just following that kind of stuff to see some big titties?

e-choe · Answer

I think, if you're a decent looking person and are confident about what he digs about you, no. You shouldn't have any concern. Hot girls are just that. Beauty runs skin deep but some guys seek more than eye-candy

Anonymous · Answer

Almost all guys are trouble, in general. lmfao.  Come date us girrlllssss, we know what you need hahaha by the way i'm totally kidding

Jaybournexx · Answer

Well I’d say yes. He is at the least addicted to porn. That’s my guess

ryancg · Answer

I'd say it's a red flag if someone uses Instagram in general.

ZeussLightningBolt · Answer

Not really. Guys like hot girls. Following them online doesn't neccessirly mean he won't be loyal

Anonymous · Answer

Your worried about Instagram models, you should check is internet history you'll probably find some other kind of models

Anonymous · Answer

Don’t make any big decisions based on intuition and emotion. Maybe he just like looking at them on Instagram. In no way does that mean he’s going to cheat on you with them.

owens97 · Answer

tbh i haven't seen any ugly ones on there so that's kinda unfair

Anonymous · Answer

I follow Gal Gadot on Facebook it is just for fantasies. Local girls sound just as acquaintance or can be a danger.

OpenWine · Answer

that's not a red flag unless you find him dirty talking to them. if he does that it's a yellow flag and must be talked about

Anonymous · Answer

I'll let you in on a little secret: most guys REALLY like looking at hot girls. . .

rahul_24 · Answer

Well he isn't into relationship atm, get to know him. The more you'll know him, the more you'll get the answer

Anonymous · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

Nah I doubt it, not unless he gets a lot of attention from women.

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